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Pretty sparkly party dress for a short fat 40 year old!

35 replies

vanimal · 25/11/2015 10:38

I need a party dress for Saturday, and am having a last minute panic!

Its a dressy evening do, and I am 40, 5'2" and currently a size 14 (my biggest ever weight SadSad) with flabby arms.

I like this dress from Debenhams but its a pale colour and I will have young children with me plus food and drink, not an ideal combination.

Budget is less than £100. And I need to order online today so I have time before the party!

Please can you help? Smile

OP posts:
vanimal · 25/11/2015 10:44

I should add that I would like the dress to be long as I have v unnattractive legs, and also I have a v flabby beer belly so something that detracts from that would be good.

I am lovely aren't I?!

OP posts:
Gruach · 25/11/2015 10:58

Are you certain that "pretty and sparkly" is really what you want?

How about something from this website for a more contemporary look than you'll find in the shop you mentioned?

Gruach · 25/11/2015 11:03

And I think this is beautiful and perfect for a dressy event.

Dowser · 25/11/2015 11:36

I don't think it will be any good for you op. I have a long little mistress dress and it is long and I'm 5'6

I think it might be too long for you. My dress is almost identical except it's pale coffee. I must remember to eBay it as its too big for me . It was a possible to wear onmy wedding day but like was just too big.

After I've been inthe bath ican measure the length for you if you like.

Dowser · 25/11/2015 11:49

I've been searching for a gorgeous Eliza j dress I think would have been perfect. It was there just the other day. It was a slightly darker version of the one I wore for my wedding. Mine is champagne, this is gold. It's gone. Mines there but only in a 12 . I'll post mine so you know what I'm on about.

Dowser · 25/11/2015 11:54

This is mine

www.houseoffraser.co.uk/Eliza+J+Jacquard+fit+and+flare+with+neck+embellishment/209904952,default,pd.html

It was beautiful, white shot with gold thread making it a lovely champagne colour. The gold one was similar just darker

Have a look round the house of Fraser Eliza j page, you might see something else you like.

SorrelForbes · 25/11/2015 11:56

I recently bought this from Debenhams. I'm 5'3" and a size 12 and it's very flattering.

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EverybodyHatesATourist · 25/11/2015 13:39

Does it have to be a dress? My friend is about your size and she bought this top in Matalan the other day, she's going to wear it with black trousers. It looked lovely on.

Dowser · 25/11/2015 14:17

Just measured my dress. Op it's 62 inches long....that's 5 feet two ins.
It says it's a size 16 but I think more like an 18 .

The name on it says Maya.

It's very very pretty but very big. Suit a tall size 18 really.

Yseulte · 25/11/2015 14:21

Sequin dress Asda £25

Dowser · 25/11/2015 14:22

I think op has gone shopping...;-)

Yseulte · 25/11/2015 14:27

shoes £30 Asos

Yseulte · 25/11/2015 14:30

You're probably right.

I don't think long is good on 5'2.

vanimal · 25/11/2015 14:35

Thank you lovely ladies! I have ordered these:

Might be too boring but maybe not?

I love this one and hope it fits, the online fitter thingy says it should

OP posts:
vanimal · 25/11/2015 14:37

I would normally agree that long on 5'2" is not good, but I am really horrible looking at the moment, so I just want to cover up. The weight is coming off slowly but I am 2.5 stone overweight at the moment, and that does not sit well on a short person!

OP posts:
vanimal · 25/11/2015 14:38

Dowser I will cancel the Little Mistress one, thank you so much for taking the time to measure it for me!

OP posts:
Twinklestein · 25/11/2015 18:18

You are not horrible looking atm, don't talk about yourself like that OP!

I really like the second dress.

Twinklestein · 25/11/2015 18:19

That you just ordered I mean.

dingit · 25/11/2015 18:28

I'm a die hard Dorothy Perkins fan ( I don't think you get many admitting it on here, but who cares) they have just brought out a 'curve' range and have some nice party wear.

Dowser · 25/11/2015 18:29

No problem ;-)

Both dresses are lovely so one of them should suit.

Hope they arrive on time.

Dowser · 25/11/2015 18:29

I'm glad you reminded me of my little mistress dress, I'll take a photo and get it on eBay tomorrow

Queenbean · 25/11/2015 18:37

That black lace chi chi dress is absolutely beautiful

You will look divine in it, here's to having a bit more confidence OP Wine

tethersend · 25/11/2015 18:40

How about this?

HardleyWorthit · 25/11/2015 18:49

Have you looked at this site OP? They have some lovely dresses on there- lots reduced!

www.chichiclothing.com/