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How should I have responded to DSS?

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toogoodforthisworld · 24/07/2022 18:10

All the kids were removed from mum due to her addiction issues. They see her occasionally. The court only allows supervised visits.
We have the younger 2 with us on Holiday- and are here for 2 weeks. The elder DSS's 2nd hand phone just gave up the ghost - it was on its last legs but he got it for Xmas last year. So it's basically 2 years and 6 months old .
He is furious as it means he can't have any contact with his mates. He said he is not coming with us again and wants to stay with mum.
I said very kindly: 'I wish you could mate..'

What would have been a better way to reply?
I love him to bits and he is in therapy already (at his own request)
Any tips? Thanks x

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pitchforksandflamethrowers · 29/07/2022 21:52

@toogoodforthisworld just a note to say you sound bloody lovely. Nicely handled re money situation. Your DSC are lucky to have you. V gracious and handled with delicacy

toogoodforthisworld · 29/07/2022 22:19

@pitchforksandflamethrowers
Thank you for all your comments. Like you- I also love my DSC especially the younger ones- very much. They are turning into lovely kids.

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