When your DSC stay with you do they bring what they need with them?

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Or do you have it all there for them? And if childcare is needed on those days (after school care) do you pay for it or their DM?

Aww Scorpio I so know how you feel hug

My partners ex also has made really unreasonable demands on us since our babe was born 9 weeks ago. She has dumped my partners DD on us for a lot of time (longest so far 11 days- claiming she was ill)She also dumps my partners DD on others (her parents, mates, babysitters) whenever it suits

We dont quizz partners DD but too sad snip ids of information came to light in the last few days...
That mum sends her to bed with wet hair after a bath and that mum never plays eye spy with her because she doesnt want to

yerblurt - we're in France - law is quite different...

fingers crossed for you then!

the law here is an ass, "the children's welfare is paramount" my arse!" giving more money to the scumbag lawyers and not to kids more like!

...hopefully you'll be OK in france, I don't know if they have a presumption of shared parenting post-separation, but good luck, keep us informed!