My husband and I work from home he earns more than I buy we put equal amount money into the house for bills etc
His daughter is 12 she comes to us 3 days a week had been 7 in the last and mainly 4
He works 7 days a week 52 weeks the year
When she comes here he’s always working I do all her cooking washing care and he seems to expect it.
He doesn’t spend time with her well just a 1/2 hour dog walk so I said if your working you need to have her when your free = never
I don’t know what to say anymore as nothing changes if I say you cook for her he won’t and I’m cooking for all of us so I can’t not cook for him and her
I want her to grow up seeing her dad loves her and will do what parents are meant to.
How do other step parents do this ?
If you both work who does the cooking etc ?
Her mum isn’t working so I said isn’t it best she stays with her Mum and you see her when you CAN make time ? He didn’t reply.
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My husband expects me to do everything for his daughter
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Lalameme · 06/07/2018 18:06
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