reading a thread on aibu about the usual, ex making a womans life miserable and basically it the usual keep your nose out, suck it up. its their kids bla bla bla. he will do the same to you crap.
the op has vanished it seems under the weight of all this well meaning the wife is so hard done by your holed up playing happy families crap.
i mean really what do people think happens to the kids when the wife gets free rein to behave like a horrible child because everyone believe she is the wounded party and the husband was an evil soul sucking fiend. gah!