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Ellie has been critically ill

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anniebear · 11/07/2006 06:34

I am sorry, I know I haven't posted as much on here lately but I knew some of you would like to know

My daughter Ellie (nearly 5)hasn't been well

she is in Hospital and has been on a ventilator which she came off at around 4am yesterday morning

she was so ill. It is so out of the blue. she was fine Sunday morning, by the afternoon she seemed a little off colour

Then DH went out, she was sick then her eyes went funny. I knew she was having a seizure and was hysterical

rang an ambulance

Grace (her twin) was fantastic, she ran and got me some wipes, got me some shoes so I was ready to go and opened the front door ready. what a star, Im so proud of her

thought we were going to lose her in the ambulance and when we got to hospital they took ages to stabalise her.

she had to be ventilated and 3 medics came from Alder hey to get her to take her back there to ICU

That was horrible, we had to drive in our own car and they overtook us with the lights flashing

Had improved yesterday though. there wasn't a bed for her in Alder Hey when she was ready to leave ICU so we had to come back over to our local hospital

I had 1 hr sleep sunday night so DH has stayed with her (on a ward, own room) Grace is at my Mum and Dads

Just a nightmare. Can't belive we could have lost her again

Still don't know what caused it. They have 99% ruled out her shunt now, she has canula's in her and screamed having them, it is very hard to find a vein as she has been a human pin cushion She is on antibiotica in case she has an infection (Meningitis, ear, chest etc etc)

they are still waiting those results, they take 72 hours

But she is a lot better

Just doesn't stop does it!!!!!

Also as most of you will understnad. We can't leave her at all. Not that we would want to for long! But even to go to the toilet we have had to explain to the Nurse on duty and ask if they can sit with her in case she takes off! So at the mo DH and myself are swapping duties!

Luckily he has a week off as he was going to decorate!

sorry about the long post, I knew some of you wouldwant to know

Thanks

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Miaou · 11/07/2006 11:16

Sooooo sorry to hear this anniebear - poor Ellie . How wonderful Grace was , helping you out? How is she coping now?

Do you think you will ever find out what happened, or is it likely to be just "one of those things that happen" because of the nature of Ellie's condition?

Thinking of you all ... xxxx

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Lemmingswife · 11/07/2006 11:28

So sorry to hear Ellie has been so unwell. It must have been very frightening for you all.

Wishing her a very speedy recovery.

coppertop · 11/07/2006 11:29

That sounds terrifying. Best wishes to Ellie and the rest of the Bear family. xxx

RTKangaMummy · 11/07/2006 11:30

Sorry to hear about Ellie and what a star Grace was

{{{{{{{{{{{{cyberhugs to you all}}}}}}}}}}}}

Saker · 11/07/2006 14:46

Anniebear

Sorry you have had such an awful frightening time. I hope Ellie is getting better and you are okay. Well done to Grace to - what a little star.

Bozza · 11/07/2006 14:54

anniebear sending you and all the family best wishes.

saggarmakersbottomknocker · 11/07/2006 14:58

Anniebear - thinking of you and hoping she's soon on the mend.

mears · 11/07/2006 14:59

Hope she continues to improve anniebear - what a fright for you all.

PollyLogos · 11/07/2006 15:53

Must have been really scary anniebear, but glad to hear that ellie is getting better now. What a star Grace is!! Hope everything is back to normal soon.

SlightlyFamiliarPeachyClair · 11/07/2006 16:05

Oh Annie so sorry

Tope hero marks to Grace though

emmalou78 · 11/07/2006 17:58

Annie, Just wanted to say (((hugs))) to you all, I hope Eliie makes a speedy fast recovery and well done to grace!
With any luck they'll know ASAP whats what and theordealwill be over for all of you x

zippitippitoes · 11/07/2006 18:02

I hope she is on the mend very soon

with love to you all xx

singersgirl · 11/07/2006 18:24

Annibear, so sorry to hear you've had such a frightening time and hope Ellie is getting better. Grace sounds such a lovely and mature little girl. (I just always remember about your twins that they are the exact same age as DS2!).

MrsGerrard · 11/07/2006 18:34

oh anniebear I am so sorry

Loads of love and hugs to you all and really hoping that ellie is on the mend really soon XXXXXXX

chonky · 11/07/2006 19:22

Anniebear, really sorry to hear this, hope that Ellie's on the mend. You're in my thoughts. x

marthamoo · 11/07/2006 19:24

anniebear - I'm really sorry to read this: how traumatic for you all. I hope Ellie is much better very soon - and well done to Grace, what a star.

Pages · 11/07/2006 20:14

So sorry anniebear, how frightening. I think someone else asked but does she normally have seizures (I don't think you ever mentioned them before??)How is she doing now?

Piffle · 11/07/2006 20:22

anniebear so sorry to hear Ellie ha been through such an ordeal and you and your dh too
I hope she is getting better and will be back to her old self soon.Crikey poor little lass has bene through the mill so much too
Get well soon Ellie

eidsvold · 12/07/2006 03:50

what a terrible time. OF course we would want to know. Thoughts are with you. What a star Grace is. Sorry you are having such a tough time of it.

jenk1 · 12/07/2006 08:50

Annie, only just seen this, am so sorry that this has happened.

What a lovely sister Ellie has in Grace, you must be so proud of her.

I hope she gets better very soon, please keep updating us.

Love
Jen
xx

reiver · 12/07/2006 12:32

I've only just seen this too - so sorry Annie. I hope she gets well soon. Thinking of you all.

Whizzz · 12/07/2006 12:36

Just wanted to echo everyones wishes. How scary. Hope she gets better soon & well done to her brave sister

sandyballs · 12/07/2006 12:38

How frightening for you all. And how very sweet that Grace looked after you both. Hope she is better and home soon.