Husband life when times got hard

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have been with my husband over 18years we have had bumps along the way nothing awful but general life problems.
We now have a very disabled son with severe learning disabilities life is impossible I won't get into details but it is really miserable and we are our housebound.

My husband left this morning he said he can longer be unhappy, packed suitcase and everything. He has now come home and I asked if I could check his phone first, I'm very insecure I have had to give up any social life and career and my dad was abusive so I do have trust issues I just needed reassurance as he has been over friendly with a female at work all ok but just texting a lot.

He said I was being completely unreasonable and no woman would ask such a thing, I said out marriage will be over if you don't let me look he said so be it.

He has now deleted everything please help

Sorry about typos I haven't eaten today and feeling quite unwell

I am so sorry to hear that your husband has behaved so terribly, he sounds very much guilty by his actions. Please know that you are not alone and I am sorry that he has done this on top of you caring for your child.

i know that your post will get more traffic in the relationships section not sure if/how to move the thread. There was a lady whose husband was to leave the other day on there I will put the link here https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/relationships/5126489-husband-has-announced-hes-leaving-me

I am sorry I am not much practical use to you but do you have anyone a friend/family member/neighbour that you can confide in? If not you need a professional as you need support eg Gp as you say you are feeling unwell. Please eat something and post again if you can on relationships board. People on here are very supportive its just that this is a less busy section.

Sending you strength 💐