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Dummy or thumb?

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heylottie · 13/12/2009 17:53

Apols if this is a well trodden path...! And I hope it is in the right forum... perhaps it should be in the Feeding section??

My 8 week old dd is, what I would call, a 'sucky' baby. She feeds well and fast, but i do think she (and I!) might benefit from a dummy as she likes to comfort suck - and I think it will help settle her better at night rather than using my nipple, when i know she is sleeping and sucking as opposed to feeding.

As an ex thumb sucker myself I would prefer her to suck her thumb - I know that you can't take the thumb away. am I mad?

At what age do they 'find' their thumbs? At the mo she us sucking her fist - can I use a dummy now and a thumb later? I know a dummy/thumb won't work miracles but would like to try.

This question always bugs me at 3am...!

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OverwhelmedandUnderpaid · 21/09/2010 05:59

Thumb... DD was a huge comfort sucker and found it at about 8 weeks but lost interest at around 20 weeks and does not use it at all any more.

She may have taken a dummy if offered but I personally didn't want to use one. However, if that is the only thing that stands between you and sanity I say go for it.

HelenLG · 22/09/2010 20:57

We tried a dummy, but DS spits it out after a few seconds... he has found his thumb on a couple of occasions, but for now we just use our fingers to help settle him, this is becoming less frequent now.

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