he's up there now getting hot and sweaty, red faced, screaming, crying the place down, and only just started doing it again. He keeps saying he wants to be "in there", in other words go in our room.
He cries so much he is coughing and I think he is going to be sick any minute.
Is it really that cruel to leave him to get on with it. I worry as I am listening that the noises he is making is him being sick sometimes!