Ds is 11 weeks - still little i know - but he always gets bfed to sleep at night. At his regular bedtime he feeds for about 40 mins, although only about 10-15 minutes of this is actual feeding and the rest of the time is just sucking until he goes to sleep and de-latches himself. His daytime naps only happen with him in his swing or pram or the car i.e with movement! I was totally spoiled by my first baby, my dd, who is and was an extremely good sleeper and self-settler. i suppose what I am worried about is that my ds seems unable to settle himself. Is this something that may come with age or is it something I will have to teach him how to do? He's really not too bad a sleeper at night, feeds once usually, twice sometimes, is put down asleep and stays that way until next feed/morning..