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weakestlink · 16/08/2011 16:37

Am running out of patience with DS2 - 6months.

He will only sleep in bed with me feeding him lying down then I can creep away after 10 mins or so and he'll sleep for up to 45mins there.
Or I have to feed him & hold him in my arms until he wakes up. If I try to transfer him anywhere he wakes up and I'm back to square one.

I am sure he needs sleep as he is very grumpy and constantly cat naps for 20-30 mins throughout the day (usually after feeding).

He won't sleep in the cot or Pushchair. I pushed him for an hour today and he didn't fall asleep - just sat there then cried for the last 10mins or so home.

I have tried controlled crying but even after 1.5hours he was still just screaming (I did go in every 10 mins to resettle but did not pick him up).

I don't really have a 'routine' with him yet but have started introducing solids at 9,12 & 5pm and he wakes up at 7am and goes to bed with me around 9pm. He feeds on average 2 times during the night :(

I don't really want to breastfeed anymore but he won't take a bottle (even of expressed milk) or drink from a cup so what does that leave?!

I can't leave him for more than an hour in case he wants to feed or sleep :( I have another DS who we think might have ASD and so his behaviour can be very challenging at times so I need all my energy to deal with him!

Help :(

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weakestlink · 06/10/2011 19:51

Hi everyone

Sorry I haven't been around for a while - life is very hectic at the moment!

Looby I have decided to go back to work (if they will have me as they are being funny about it but that's another thread) and I'm going to apply for a PGCE either next Sept or 2013. I am also thinking of setting up a small business running preschool / key stage 1 French classes but it's only a pipedream at the moment!

Sleep here has been conquered thank bloody god! I now have a baby who sleeps 6pm-7am (10pm dream feed) and naps 3 x day.
Here is how I did it:

  1. Gave up breastfeeding (he will drink HIPP formula from TT bottles)
  2. Established "routine" around fixed 4 hourly feeds (6/7 month old)
  3. Custom made "proper" mattress for travel cot so no banged heads on sides!
  4. Video monitor to help with controlled crying.
  5. Controlled crying going in to check on him every 20 minutes but not picking him up.

(not trying to be smug just writing it all out in case one step helps someone!)

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