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'Sympathy' reaction used inappropriately?

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BillieWiper · 14/01/2026 20:47

I'm not sure if I'm misinterpreting it or it's just not really a thing...

But has anyone had the 'sympathy' (flowers thing) reaction seemingly used in a sarcastic manner? Almost like 'I feel sorry for you for thinking this as you must be pathetic'?

It's difficult to describe it but it feels a bit like the misuse of the 'laughing' reaction all over again.

It's only happend a couple of times to me and again I'm happy to be proved paranoid! Just wondering if others have felt it ever used in this way?

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Helleofabore · 20/01/2026 10:16

BillieWiper · 14/01/2026 22:33

Thanks again everyone for your replies. Some posters could've been a bit less blunt but hey ho. I get that it seemed a silly question to some of you! X

I have had that reaction used in a very creepy way and as it was done by the same poster multiple times, it was no accident. Ie. it was being used to bully not in support.

I would hate to see that reaction go though.

DameOfThrones · 20/01/2026 11:29

NoCommentingFromNowOn · 17/01/2026 01:04

@Brefugee related to the above it may be a good idea for MN to allow users to disable reactions to their posts.

I think you can in your settings.

You can't.

But you can disable the notifications.

WearyAuldWumman · 20/01/2026 20:57

I'll admit that - since seeing this thread - I've started to worry about using the 'support' reaction, lest someone should take it the wrong way. I still use it, but now I worry about it!

velvetgeranium · 25/01/2026 16:02

I've only ever had someone use the flowers reaction emoji in a mean way - used to mock me by someone who disagreed aggressively with me. It's oddly upsetting.

velvetgeranium · 25/01/2026 16:03

BillieWiper · 14/01/2026 21:21

Ok it looks like I might be imagining it. I'm not saying it's ever been upsetting or should be withdrawn. Just wondered if anyone had felt they way sometimes. Glad to hear I'm probably just being daft.

You're not imagining it.

BillieWiper · 25/01/2026 16:41

velvetgeranium · 25/01/2026 16:03

You're not imagining it.

Thank you. I haven't really seen it since I made that post. I did get lots of them in response which was inevitable and I do have a sense of humour.

But I'm sorry if you also felt like people were mocking you in this way. X

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