Is this a new policy?
I know people don't like reverses, but I understand completely why people might occasionally use them, particularly when they need entirely honest responses. The deletion of one last night, simply for being a reverse (the OP was perfectly pleasant and clearly worried about her situation) seemed odd, and, to my mind, unfair.
To be honest a reverse can sometimes show more willingness on the OP's part to hear opinions that are not their own, than the average person, as was the case with yesterday's poster.