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Dementors

60 replies

JemimaPuddleCat · 17/05/2020 19:21

Can you please, please ask the group of MNers that are using this term to stop coming onto CV related threads and throwing this word around? For whatever reason, they are being given carte blanche over their own series of threads which they use to mock and insult other MNers, but to continue throwing their tuppence into other threads in the Coronavirus topic screams of attention seeking.

I'm not sure why even using the term 'Dementor' to describe other posters is seen as okay, but if they'd not insert it into other conversations, this place would be a bit more pleasant at the moment.

OP posts:
JemimaPuddleCat · 17/05/2020 21:28

@Hobnobswantshernameback

I've made it clear that I'm not referring to the specific threads.
You seem very angry.

OP posts:
JoeExoticsEyebrowRing · 17/05/2020 21:33

Using that term towards another poster is akin to a personal attack.

You do realise that Remus Lupin isn't real don't you?!

Bluntness100 · 17/05/2020 21:35

Op,I’ve read some of your posts and let’s be honest they wouldn’t be described as pleasant would they?

I,m not really sure you get to complain if people fight back. If you give it. You need to be able to take it.

I’d maybe bear that in mind when you next post something unpleasant to someone asking a basic question.

Destroyedpeople · 17/05/2020 21:36

Jemima you seem very dismissive.

JoeExoticsEyebrowRing · 17/05/2020 21:36

But it's also not alright to accuse another poster of being "among the foulest creatures that walk this earth".

Christ on a roller-coaster, do you honestly take everything so literally?! It's a fictional description from a children's book! I've not been on any of the dementors threads, or used the term myself, but I am agog that anyone can find this so offensive!

Drivingdownthe101 · 17/05/2020 21:38

Is it essential? No? Then don’t fucking do it

To someone asking a perfectly reasonable question about a perfectly legal activity.

ClassicCola · 17/05/2020 21:43

I think allowing a thread on MN to mock other posters on MN is NITS.

Drivingdownthe101 · 17/05/2020 21:47

I think abusing posters who are struggling, or whose children are struggling, or are asking a legitimate question about permitted activity is NITS.

ITonyah · 17/05/2020 21:49

I got called a murdering cunt on here once .

Dementors is fine and apt. Get over yourself!

userxx · 17/05/2020 21:51

@ITonyah did you go to two different supermarkets in the same week 😱

Laniakea · 17/05/2020 21:51

If I can withstand ‘psycho bitch’ I’m sure others can cope with ‘dementor’.

Destroyedpeople · 17/05/2020 21:52

I Tonya... great movie..

Drivingdownthe101 · 17/05/2020 21:52

userxx I think she bought a packet of non essential curly wurlies and ate them on a park bench.

DianneWhatcock · 17/05/2020 21:53

Hahahaha 🤣

Hobnobswantshernameback · 17/05/2020 21:53

Oh my god iTonyah you smiled and were happy
Oh my god have you no shame
Do you not understand the utter carnage you have caused

Grin
ITonyah · 17/05/2020 21:53

Ha ha it was a non covid matter!!

Hobnobswantshernameback · 17/05/2020 21:55

Oh my god
Can you still murder people and it not be a covid thing
Oh my god
I had no idea
Smile

ClassicCola · 17/05/2020 21:57

I'm not disputing that some posters are awful on the Corona threads, I'm just uncomfortable with MN allowing a thread mocking what other people post on here.

ITonyah · 17/05/2020 21:58

I've definitely also had "its people like you which means we will be in lockdown until Christmas" etc etc and thst WAS because I went to two supermarkets inONE DAY

Drivingdownthe101 · 17/05/2020 21:59

There is very very little mocking going on on those threads, if any. The vast majority are regular posters who are really struggling mentally with various aspects of the lockdown and need a slightly more optimistic outlook. Many are suffering from anxiety and found that constantly being shouted down by others was destroying them. Many people have said those threads are a lifeline. So that is ITS. If others aren’t interested, they don’t have to read them.

Mascotte · 17/05/2020 22:00

Is this now not a thread about a thread?

ClassicCola · 17/05/2020 22:01

They must have changed then because the last time I looked at one posters were quoting other posters and linking to threads.

Clemmieandareallybigbunfight · 17/05/2020 22:02

Are you kidding op? Get a grip.

Drivingdownthe101 · 17/05/2020 22:02

ClassicCola in the first thread yes, then we all agreed to keep it more general.

userxx · 17/05/2020 22:07

@ITonyah 🤣🤣 what a good guess.