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Civility - what we should and shouldn't allow

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JustineMumsnet · 25/04/2007 10:00

Hello all,
We've just deleted a thread entitled:
"AM a bit pissed so this isnt gonna be worded as eloquently as one would wish, but Gordon Brown is a bit of a cock sucker so who the fuck are we gonna vote for?" on the grounds that some folk had complained, it's a personal attack and also we'd like to get him on for an online chat and we didn't think leaving it up would be helpful in that regard .

But it did get us thinking about what sort of guidelines (beyond posts which break the law) we should have as a rule, particularly with regard to folk who are in the public eye - celebs etc.

We've always shied away from deleting on the grounds of poor taste (who's taste and where do you draw the line?) and we certainly are not too fussed about swear words. But naturally there's a lot of comment on MN, much of it tongue in cheek for sure, that could be construed as as abusive towards famous folk - equally true is that it's an awful lot tamer than elsewhere on the net.

Mumsnet (as you know ) is pro freedom of speech as a rule and have no wish to censor or stop the conversation flowing. What's more our stated aim is to make parents' lives easier - and a bit of bit of a vent/laugh is often a useful thing but should we intervene more or is it a case of just reminding/ urging folk to be civil and treating each case on it's merit?

Should there be one rule for celebs and one rule for the rest? Had the Gordon Brown comment been made on the thread and not in the title of it, we might have been inclined to let it stand - but does that make any sense?

We'd be very grateful if you'd let us know your thoughts about where you think the lines should be drawn and what sort of level of intervention you'd like.
Ta very mucho,
MNHQ

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Porcupine · 25/04/2007 13:38

i in a rahter sad ex head girl way always point out a potentially leibellous thread to mn

WelshBoris · 25/04/2007 13:39

I reported someone last week because there name was knobrot.

I am turning into my grandmother, I'll be shopping in Bon Marche next.

WelshBoris · 25/04/2007 13:39

their

SmileysPeoples · 25/04/2007 13:43

Porcupine I presumed it was you.

I've never reported anyone.

I'm more offened by the baltant stupidity or smugness (often together) that appears on here, than by foul language.

and then I'm not offended, just outraged and insensed..momentarily..until something else diverts my miniscule attention.

littlelapin · 25/04/2007 13:43

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Porcupine · 25/04/2007 13:44

ah smiley bog off wiht your eyeliner

Porcupine · 25/04/2007 13:45

lol at nob rot

WelshBoris · 25/04/2007 13:45

I really did and Carrie said "think we'll leave that one pass"

Awful name though, and I don't like swearing in thread titles. Or swearing for swearing sakes.

Like Greeny and Hunker do all the time.

SmileysPeoples · 25/04/2007 13:47

I've moved on from eyeliner.

I have lipstick issues now.

WelshBoris · 25/04/2007 13:47

Yeah, you've got some on your teeth

littlelapin · 25/04/2007 13:50

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littlelapin · 25/04/2007 13:51

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Katy44 · 25/04/2007 14:57

I didn't recognise the porcupine

Holysmoke · 25/04/2007 16:34

Shucks, Greensleeves, I've been misinformed. I was definitely told that this was the place for repressed Christian fundamentalists to come party.

VeniVidiVickiQV · 25/04/2007 17:40

LOL! Boris - you swear all the time!!!!! Especially off board

FioFio · 25/04/2007 17:42

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MrsBadger · 25/04/2007 17:43

Katy I can see how you got confused...

VeniVidiVickiQV · 25/04/2007 17:45

You are allowed to....i say it all the time

FioFio · 25/04/2007 17:45

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lljkk · 25/04/2007 17:45

Would prefer to see vulgarities not in thread titles, can tolerate them in a few messages. C&&k sucker definitely not on, though I suppose it reflects worst on whoever authored it.

FioFio · 25/04/2007 17:48

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WelshBoris · 25/04/2007 17:55

Not just random swearing for no reason.

Lapin, you're calling me a LadyBoy?

littlelapin · 25/04/2007 18:20

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Katy44 · 25/04/2007 19:25

MrsB - that thing is weird (no offence, spikey one!)

monkeytrousers · 26/04/2007 13:45

I think that's perfectly reasonable.