how do i contact mumsnet to get them to help me?

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I can't seem to email them, it won't let me, keeps telling me that there is an error. And I need to speak to someone urgently.

that is the problem with an open forum - anyone can read it. And once you get comfortable you forget it is open and post stuff that maybe you don't really want to be read by all and sundry.

I hope your "stalker" is not too distructive. And that you can still benefit from MN - don't let them scare you away.

sorry you are upset...i was having a chat with soemone last night, and at the end realised i had given away my place of birth, where my parents live, where i went to school, where i live now and other stuff that would make me very identifiable!!!! blushingly clicked the report post button......an the posts were deleted within moments! MNHQ will sort & delete the whole thread if necc.......poor you...

Well, they are probably reading this now. But she reckons she has printed them off and is going to give them to dp and other people.

Why would someone do that. Sounds like a nasty piece of work. Sorry you are going through this HMC.

have you said anything that you are ashamed of ?

Deny everything - she cannot PROVE that it really is you ! Could all be a huge coincidence !

Good Luck x

God, that's vile.

I'm know that people I know read my posts. I do temper what I post sometimes because of it.

They must be able to log into my registration bit because they knew old stuff and new stuff.

print them off? blimey - nasty

Forgot to say - what a total bitch - the sort who would no doubt read your diary - she should be very very ashamed of herself !

you are unlucky to know this person..how sad are they to do that

I do make judicious use of the chat threads as they are deleted from the site

could she have got hold of your password ? Make sure you change it quick.

if that is the case....can she not be barred from MN if she is using it maliciously? and hacking into someones identity? especially if she is going to use it to threaten someones relationships?

You poor thing, how horrible for you HMQ
Only a very disturbed or wicked person would do such a thing

I was almost on here by a particularly vicious family member (someone else told her I was on here), it was very frightening and intrusive, I was really upset. Sorry this has happened to you HMQ , glad you got it sorted out.

MNHQ wouldn't delete all my messages, they said it "made a nonsense of the boards" to delete all posts by a poster. I had to trawl through months and months of individual ones and report all the ones that contained "sensitive information".

almost outed on here, I mean.

Message withdrawn

lulu, anyone can read (and start guessing/stalking if they are so inclined I suppose) but hacking in would require membership I would have thought, so hopefully MNHQ can look into this as a separate issue.
VERY old Mners have a default password that is guessable, but they did tell us to change it.
What rotten luck.

There are some very nasty people about why would anyone want to do this.Really feel for you HMQ

this is a very close family member also.

is it your MIL?

no my mother

Your own mother would do this to you?

Charming, well if she is reading this HMQ's mother clear off you are not welcome around here