Does your husband love giving oral?

[usernamegal]

name changed for this.

Ladies, I am curious. Everywhere I read men who genuinely like giving oral are rare, especially the ones giving good oral. My DH is great at it, and he is not shy about how much he loves doing it too. He offers almost daily, and honestly is just happy to do it without wanting anything else in return. We've been married about 15 years, and this has been the case from the start.

I am just curious. Is it really that rare? I don't really have comparisons as I've been with him for so long. Or do most of them love doing it (well), and it's just some social media thing I keep seeing?

Without a doubt it was my most favourite activity. Lots of rewards from the taste, smell and feeling my wife orgasm.

Unfortunately menopause has reduced her drive and the taste/smell have gone. I'm still keen but she struggles to climax these days.

Personally I love giving oral, but then again my personal pleasure comes from pleasing my other half in what ever way I can

Mine loves it, always has. Can be challenging sometimes to get him to move onto anything else 😂

My wife gets it from me about 2x a week.
Good 5-10 min . Has a strong O.
She never was open to it in prior relationships but with me it took a lot of time and patience for her to just get comfortable. Everyone is different .

My husband has never done this to me. He didn’t like it with previous partners and has never done it to me. I’ve had it from previous partners and it wasn’t great so maybe that’s why I don’t miss it.

Ex loved to do it. any time, anywhere.
But that was a few years ago now.
They enjoy giving us pleasure but I think it is partly about control, the man getting women to do things, (obey) for pleasure.

I despair. What would it take for you to believe that a man wants to give pleasure for its own sake rather than nefarious reasons?

I love giving it. Get so much pleasure from it, and hearing her moan with it. Sadly, it's not reciprocated and I've got used to that.

Agreed but you need to remember that the majority on here are generally on here to vent about their relationship / sex life and not tell the world how amazing both are.

I think you probably wanted more women to reply but I don’t believe it’s that rare. Many men enjoy performing oral on a partner as do many women. The reverse is also true.

I would imagine that possibly younger men would be even more open to it due to their increased exposure to porn and better information than us 90’s boys’s.

I didn't think it's rare. It's not universal for sure, but not rare. Quality may vary though 😂

True but OP is clearly satisfied!

I think it is as varied as everything. I've had around 25 sexual partners, some who absolutely love going down there and could spend all day down there, love everything about it and are not concerned about getting oral sex back. I've had a couple of partners who are repulsed by it and could never do it, one of those accepted that if he wasn't willing to give me oral sex he should not expect a blow job either. A few that only give to receive and are pretty rubbish at it, and others that enjoy it, are good at it but can take or leave it.

Well, I think you've pretty much got all bases covered there.... 😊

My wife has always said that she’s never had a partner that loved going down on her until we met and she could probably count on one hand how many times across all her exes but I love it and would do it every time we have sex. On the flip side my wife has always said most women hate giving blowjobs which I’ve never experienced or heard of prior to her saying it but she’s often said her and her friends have spoke about it.

Is it rare? Most of my partners have enjoyed giving me oral immensely. My bf of 3 years in my late teens/early 20's found it boring, so very rarely offered. He generally didn't see the the point in doing things I liked if it wasn't also directly stimulating him, though.

may that type of attitude never find any of us that your ex-boyfriend had.

she is :)

Love giving oral, just tell me when you've had enough 😄

I love it. My ex was great at it. It's the one thing I miss! There's nothing like the intensity of this type of orgasm. My whole body would spasm.

I sigh a bit when I read these posts. Dh has never seen, touched (with his hand) or been anywhere near my nether other than with his penis

I love giving oral to a woman. Very intimate and I genuinely love everything about it.

Appreciate it's not for everyone though and I know quite a few men who really dislike it.

Never?

Never

Oh wow @TreesPleaseLouise I hope it’s because he’s so skilled with his dick that he can give you Os without the need for anything else