Does your husband love giving oral?

[usernamegal]

name changed for this.

Ladies, I am curious. Everywhere I read men who genuinely like giving oral are rare, especially the ones giving good oral. My DH is great at it, and he is not shy about how much he loves doing it too. He offers almost daily, and honestly is just happy to do it without wanting anything else in return. We've been married about 15 years, and this has been the case from the start.

I am just curious. Is it really that rare? I don't really have comparisons as I've been with him for so long. Or do most of them love doing it (well), and it's just some social media thing I keep seeing?

It's just something I'd expect a partner - male or female - to do in any kind of long term relationship. Of course, I don't want to force anyone into activities they don't want to do, but equally, I wouldn't want to be in a relationship where it doesn't happen! I've given oral sex to people where it hasn't been reciprocated, if I've found them particularly cute or fanciable, but if they don't do the same to me they're not long term prospects.

Regretfully not

Oh dear...bit sad really but it's just not going to happen now. He is ND and cannot abide anything wet/gel/sticky on his hands and struggles with textures. He tried with previous partners and was gagging with smell and feel.
I would rather do without than feel I was the cause of this. Too late for me now though

Have you never raised this with him? Do you speak to each other? Really this was a discussion for early dating let alone marriage.

How did you end up marrying him if this was the case?

Must be hard @TreesPleaseLouise as I think you’d like more. I can’t imagine how frustrating this would be

😳 and you married him?