Can men explain why they like these sex things?

[Tellmewhhyy]

Obviously “not all men”. But there are some things that they do that I don’t understand.

I’ve name changed and hoping that people can give clear answers to satisfy my curiosity.

Firstly. What do you get from licking a women’s bum hole? For me it doesn’t feel pleasurable at all. I tolerate it because you guys seem to really like it. But what do you get out of it?

Also smelling. Those men who buy used underwear, what does it smell like to you? Do you actually like it, why?

none and neither

Maybe some men like the taste of shit?? Possibly the same that find feet attractive (I will never understand that!)

I wonder if we can sell our used underwear for more than puchase new. If so, I will stock mine up over a month and sell in bulk so any lucky buyer can smell them to their heart's content 😜

The arse licking seems to be a common thing. I don’t understand it.

If you don't like your arse licked then why tolerate it? (Genuinel Q by the way, not being snarky!) Sex should be mutually pleasurable and I wouldnt really tolerate something I didnt enjoy, maybe once in a blue moon if it was my partner's thing, but not as a matter of course.

I enjoy doing it if my partner enjoys it being done to her, and the feeling if its reciprocated is amazing. Its a very sensitive area, so it can feel very pleasurable, but I think the "naughtiness" of it helps too.

I can't help on the underwear question tho, thats never been for me. 🤷‍♂️

Not all men like their arse licked and an awful lot of women I’ve been with either like doing it or like receiving.

It’s possibly another ‘porn thing’ as it seems it has become relatively mainstream and therefore more accepted. Personally, I enjoy both giving a receiving a good arse lick, but like anything sex related, no one should ever tolerate it or do something they don’t enjoy to please their partner.

It's hard to put into words precisely. Its the naughtiness. I can only speak for myself here, but I like it when a woman is open about being into something that's not strictly vanilla. I obviously can't speak for all women here, but the ones I have encountered, it often feels like a lot of their fantasies or kinks are quite romance based like being taken by a handsome ships captain or something. This could be because that's just what they like. Or it could be because society has made them ashamed about being open about their kinks.

So when someone is confident about their kinks, its a huge turn-on. Confidence is hot I guess. So in essence the turn-on is the woman being into something like that and being confident enough to ask for it.

Men almost always have to play the dominant role too, and there's probably something a little bit submissive about eating someones ass which is a fun little switch around.

Buying used underwear I'm not too sure about, they probably become fixated on a particular porn star or Only Fans model and this is the only way of getting close to their pussy essentially. I could be wrong with this one tbh.

I was about to say this isn't a good place to ask because we don't attract men who want to justify and talk about their fetishises, but actually we do. Lucky us.

I almost want to lick my parter's arsehole because 1) she is really enthusiastic about doing it to me (she seems to try to head in that direction every time we have sex) and 2) because it feels fantastic when she does. So 1) it feels only fair that I should be prepared to do what she is and 2) I want to give her the same pleasure that she gives me.

I should say that I absolutely love licking her pussy, and she loves me doing that for her, but I'm not 100% convinced I want to rim her, mainly because of the taste and hygiene.

As for the worn knickers - I'm afraid I can't help.

I don’t like receiving a rim job but love giving it. And I’ve never tasted or smelled shit.

I’m turned on by my wife’s used underwear. I don’t know why, maybe because I can smell her off it.

Not anyone else’s though.

I can only give my perspective as a non-vanilla woman but I absolutely love all types of anal play, both on me and on my partner. To the extent that I ask openly once we start discussing sex, how they feel about it and if its a no, I don't carry on with the relationship.

And for the person who mentioned the smell and taste, I wash very well as do my partners and it's not a problem at all.

I've only ever got too close to a m an's arse once and discovered something nasty. I never went back.

For me being rimmed, the feeling is incredible and for me rimming my partner, there is something so erotic about a usually dominant sexy man groaning in pleasures as I lick him.

My current partner tells me to let him know when I'm a few minutes away from his house, he leaves the door unlocked and I often walk in to find him naked with his arse in the air waiting for me. No talking just instant arousal. We are so well matched lol.

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Haha I have a saying that has stood me well over the years "never yuck another person's yum".

I’m intrigued by both these questions as well.

In particular, as regards the rimming, do you kiss afterwards?

im female and happy to kiss after receiving oral sex but after rimming…?

Ive never rimmed or been rimmed and not sure I ever will. No matter how well you wash, surely there is a taste?

I think I’d only be comfortable doing so to my partner after she’s had a bath or shower.

I am not one to be overly turned on by the thought of buying used underwear but surely this is a pheromone thing, right?

As a man who likes it done to them, I like doing it to my women and I have had a few who actually requested it so hey, its just a thing you will personally not understand as it is not a thing. This is how sex works, what you do not like, someone else may

your first two points match my experience

neither is of any interest to me

I think some men are just very into what’s in a woman’s knickers including the smell plus the actual knickers too! I once dated a guy like this. Wanted to keep worn knickers (!), very into me not showering after gym before meeting me (!!) and loved oral plus rimming. Is it a bit of a kink maybe? Most of that I wasn’t into so it was only a short term thing.

Also, whilst not pleasurable to you, there must be some women who do get pleasure from it for any number of reasons.

Not all men (!) but many do like to meet their partner's needs, myself included, perhaps it’s more common than you might think.

I enjoy having it done to me (I’m a woman).

Once freshly showered & playing , being rimmed & doing same to your partner feels lovely ..
I really like anal sex too , just tried it 2 years ago , I’m 49 now , find it really enjoyable …

Yes, I kiss my partners after we've rimmed each other but as we've established above, I'm pretty filthy when it comes to sex.

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Maybe I know too much about what lies beneath…

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