Can men explain why they like these sex things?

[Tellmewhhyy]

Obviously “not all men”. But there are some things that they do that I don’t understand.

I’ve name changed and hoping that people can give clear answers to satisfy my curiosity.

Firstly. What do you get from licking a women’s bum hole? For me it doesn’t feel pleasurable at all. I tolerate it because you guys seem to really like it. But what do you get out of it?

Also smelling. Those men who buy used underwear, what does it smell like to you? Do you actually like it, why?

Do you both not smell a bit bum-holey afterwards?! I can’t think of anything worse than going in to kiss my partner and being met with the smell of bum hole.

It's honestly not anything I've ever thought about. Sometimes we can smell each other faintly if we kiss after oral sex so It's no different. It's just part of our normal sex life.

After nearly 20 years with a vanilla man it's just life changing to have finally found someone who I completely fit with sexually.

It's called rimming.

Correct.
A rose by any other name would sm... oh never mind.

The anus is very sensitive and gentle stimulation can be arousing. So a tounge on the bum hole might be nice. You won't know until you try. Obviously hygiene is a key factor.

The smell of a woman's pussy is or can be the intoxicating experience. The aroma from pulling down my partner's jeans drove me wild. I just loved it. It's nature.

Ha ha! Not quite!

@Tellmewhhyy Firstly. What do you get from licking a women’s bum hole? For me it doesn’t feel pleasurable at all. I tolerate it because you guys seem to really like it. But what do you get out of it?

The same thing that they get out of licking a woman's genitals. When men do these things, they feel aroused; I'm not sure why that is difficult to understand.

I'm a man, and can't imagine anything more horrible than licking somebody's bum hole.

In a world that includes Venice, chocolate, vibrators, red wine, Coen Brothers films, kissing, beaches, dancing, saunas and jazz clubs, some men's idea of pleasure is licking somebody else's arse?

Right.

4 things on your list I detest and would do literally anything rather than them.

Luckily everyone is different and we all enjoy different things. It makes for a much more interesting world 😁

Venice, red wine, jazz clubs. Awful!

Coen brothers fims, saunas, beach and jazz clubs!

I'm pretty sure Venice smells worse.

Lots of nerves in that area so in theory pleasurable for the receiver, why people like doing it, honestly don’t know, I guess both parties must enjoy it, if you attend properly to personal hygiene, is it really any different from kissing any other part of the body, i imagine a lot of the reasons for not are psychological, as for the knicker sniffing, that one’s just weird, definitely a kink for some

Personally I find receiving it very pleasurable and intimate and my husband enjoys it so its all good. Surely the same as most sexual acts if its fun and what you both want then enjoy if you dont dont!!