Spicing things up

[MaeDaymon]

So I'm having another attempt at spicing up our sex life.

I've bought some amazing underwear but I want to wear 1 of the following:

Suspenders?
Hold-ups?
Crotchless tights?

Is there a consensus of opinion on which is the most sexy?

I not sure how these will be appreciated as it's something different (Partner usually likes me in very lacy feminine underwear).

Good Morning my lovely MNs. How are you all this beautiful morning? I cannot stop smiling and stupid wee giggles. I have had the most amazing night of my life - well eventually! So let me tell what happened to me last night! We had had a food delivery and ate that while drinking wine. We had a couple of bottles and we were getting a wee bit steamy on the couch, so we went upstairs. Now at this point, I still had it in my teeny, tiny mind to put the basque on etc and surprise him. He went into my bedroom and I went into one of the other ones to get 'ready'. Well, this is where it all went wrong! I put the basque on but I put it on wrongly and I was stuck! I honestly could not remove my feet & one leg. It was tangled in the ribbon stuff that was criss-crossed up the front and I had both feet through the straps for my shoulder and into one leg entrance! I have no idea how I managed this. I just threw myself onto the bed and was howling with laughter. Next thing I heard a knock at door and "huffy are you OK? I'm coming in." I just put both hands over my face. He at first thought I was crying - well I was but it was tears of laughter - then he knew I was laughing! (I keep getting told I have a very distinctive laugh)! Anyway, he helped me to get 'untangled' and he lay beside me. Well wise MNs, I don't think I need to tell you what happened next! Only that it was AMAZING! We eventually went to my bedroom and had more wine, scooby snacks and snuggled in to watch a movie. Bottom line - 4 times altogether MNs - it was just the most amazing, sensual, romantic night ever! I feel fabulous this morning, on cloud 9 and we just cannot stop grinning at each other. So there we are MNs - my night of passion. Oh can you all imagine the upcoming reactions of the girls tonight? Honestly, they are all going to cracking up - I can just imagine! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Have a great day everyone. 🤩💖

Bridget Jones in crotchless knickers 😂

That is it exactly @Gymbunny2025. I love that! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Wounderful update @huffyhufferson Sounds a fun and amazing night!

Maybe its lingerie before wine next time lol.

@huffyhufferson Congratulations on your lovely night, glad you enjoyed!

Aww thank you so much @Chipbarmandgravy it really was. Oh I know! 🤣🤣 Not sure I will do the lingerie thing again. Basque has been washed & dried and I think I will give it away, telling recipient that it has been 'worn in a fashion for about 15mins!' 🤣🤣 Also, thank you @GarrynotsoGorilla. I really did enjoy myself. Still cannot stop grinning like a Chesire Cat.😁😁

Noooo @huffyhufferson you might as well keep it and put it on before any alcohol has been consumed another time!! Why not?! If you’re going to be having regular sex with this new guy it’s sometimes nice to spice things up a little. As per the thread title!

Do you think so @Gymbunny2025? I might just do that and yes like you & @Chipbarmandgravy suggested - no alcohol before! Honestly, sometimes I just think there is no hope - I can be so ditsy and an airhead. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Fun times!

Next time, try the blindfold! You won't regret it!

Hi, @SaraSunny. I'm so sorry I haven't answered you today. Well the blindfold was used - he had it pushed up on to his forehead when he came to find me. That just cracked me up! I was howling with laughter. Not the way I had imagined it to be used though!🤣🤣

Good morning lovely MNs. Hope you are all well this beautiful, sunny morning. Just came on to tell you all that I have survived last night with the girls - don't actually know how I managed to survive! They are outrageous but lots & lots of fun. I had had a suggestion made to me about a game to play - which I suggested and of course they were up for it! Each of them had to try to put the basque - this bloody basque🤣🤣 - on, while I timed them. This had to happen after alcohol had been consumed though! It was a riot, honestly. One of them actually fell off the bed! It was a fab night though. Suffering a wee bit this morning but had to get up and ready for my sister and friend (from another group) who are coming here this morning. My friend is a beautician and comes every 3 weeks for us to get our nails done. Then my sister & I go for some retail therapy! Hope you all have a great day. Take care all of you. X💖🤩

I forgot to tell you all that when I told them about my night with FWB, they were howling with laughter when I told them about the 'basque situation'! They thought it was hilarious. Anyway, when I told them about the actual night, they actually all jumped on me screaming and shouting "go huffy, go huffy"! I was flattened by them, honestly! However, they are all so pleased for me. 😁😁

How many stars will the basque get on Trustpilot?
perhaps marked down for ease of use? Null Point!

I’m not even sure I know what a basque is now 😂 I thought it was like a corset top that did up at the back?! I’ve never worn one or possibly even seen one irl though!

Definitely 'Null Point' from me @Springtimefordaffs for not being able to use it in the way I imagined - however that was my fault!🤣🤣🤣

If anyone ever suggests something called Shibari to you, just say no.....

Hi, @Gymbunny2025. So sorry for delay in replying to you. So, the girl in the shop described it as a basque, however, I have been looking for it online and have found it on Asos. They describe it as 'Ann Summers Boudoir Tease Crotchless Body'. So who knows what it is? 🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤣

Oh! @Springtimefordaffs I have just googled Shibari! What a sheltered life I have lived! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

My DH likes a slow reveal. He's blindfolded while I get myself dressed; I ask him questions about details such as my nails, to see how observant he was, and I make him guess what I'm going to wear, perhaps allowing him to have a feel. The more he answers wrongly, the longer he loses his sight. He can then hear me changing my outfit, and he has to earn the right to see it!

I imagine that makes it really hard for him. 😉

This is glorious, just what excitement should be. An awesome idea.

@MaeDaymon avoid crothchless….I prefer my lady to choose a classy stylish lingerie tht she feels comfortable in wearing and makes her feel sxyyyyyy, thtdifferent to her normal ones…that way she sets the mood….ofcourse silky sheeer gown, as she opens the door 🥂 👍🏿

@scalt me like your style 👍🏿 DH is lucky man……

This sounds like an excellent plan! Love blindfolds!