Spicing things up

[MaeDaymon]

So I'm having another attempt at spicing up our sex life.

I've bought some amazing underwear but I want to wear 1 of the following:

Suspenders?
Hold-ups?
Crotchless tights?

Is there a consensus of opinion on which is the most sexy?

I not sure how these will be appreciated as it's something different (Partner usually likes me in very lacy feminine underwear).

Thick socks might help for the cold feet,but given what else you are planning to wear you may find other parts get chilly.
Be brave and body confident - that is what will make you sexier than any lingerie x

Hi. Well I met up with friends yesterday - turned into a very boozy, boisterous time. They are all more excited than I am! It's been a long time since I've had a partner - well he is really going to be a FWB! They were astounded when I told them my hopefule plan! Not sure when this will happen - I really need to try to get some confidence and courage!🤣 Anyway, I will keep you updated. If I haven't answered anyone's questions, I am sorry. Trying to get a lunch/afternoon set up for my friends who are coming to my house today - I think they are just being nosy! 🤣 Thank you all again for your kind words and encouragement. I appreciate you all.💖

@huffyhufferson , Yee Haw! Away to go Gal!.

Good morning all you lovely MNs. Well, I had a lovely afternoon/night with my friends yesterday. They were going on & on about showing them what I had bought - only my friend who shopped with me had seen it. Anyway, I eventually relented and showed them. Well I kid you not - the screams, cheers and whooping from them was mad! They all know this is a whole new experience for me. It gets worse - they kept shouting & chanting (a lot of alcohol had been consumed by this time) "put it on, put it on!) So, too much pink gin later - I DID! I just can't describe their reaction! 🤣🤣 Anyway, that's where I am at now. Not sure when I am going to have the confidence to actually put it on - I might just bite the bullet and wear it! Watch this space, MNs!🤣🤣💖

@huffyhufferson There was a suggestion up-thread about a slow reveal to make it gradual for you.
Mostly it seems to me that the clothes are less important than your very positive attitude. You seem intent on giving him an extra good ride which will please you in new ways as well.

Yes there was that suggestion. I actually love this idea. Will definitely try this. I might make him wear a blindfold so he can't see me! 🤣🤣

@JoyousMaker you gave this suggestion - thank you. 💖

Absolute pleasure, delighted it would break that barrier for you! You deserve fun. We all need a little boost and this sort of fun should be for everyone.

Slow and sensual always hits the spot!

That's exactly the way my friend describes to me that that's what he will do @SaraSunny 😁

Good morning all you lovely MNs. I hope you are all well and have had a lovely weekend? My friends and I were in town on Saturday to book a holiday! 6 of us going to Greece in July - I'm so excited! So, we just had to go and celebrate! Sore head yesterday! Anyway, what I really want to tell you is that my FWB is visiting on Wednesday. So, watch this space for an update! 🤣🤣

Definitely try the blindfold!

Really? Thank you @SaraSunny - I will definitely try this. I feel like a giddy, wee teenager going on a first date! It's just crazy! 🤣🤣

Enjoy!

Aww thank @SaraSunny. I sure will try! 😁

When can we expect an update @huffyhufferson ?

Hi, @SaraSunny. Well he has arrived at my house. We are chatting just now and he has reassured me that as we have the rest of today, all night and tomorrow, we take everything at my pace. I will update you all when I have some 'news' for you all. Right now, I feel like I am going to hyperventilate, my hands are shaking and my tummy is doing somersaults! He just has this way of looking at me - just makes me go weak at the knees!🤣🤣 I promise I will keep popping on with updates - you have all been amazing to me with your kind words and advice.💖🤩

I can't talk properly! I am talking gobbledegook! I have said to him he just has to keep talking until I get myself settled down. My friends are going to be howling when I tell them this! Oh and guess what MNs? The 5 of them have invited themselves to mine tomorrow night for all the 'juicy stories!'🤷‍♀️🤣

@huffyhufferson Take some deep breaths and just remember to relax and enjoy!

Thank you @GarrynotsoGorilla. I just can't believe the state I'm getting myself in, honestly! Especially at my age! 🤣🤣 He is being lovely though. He hugged me and said that I was shaking! 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️😁

Exciting times! Are you going to try the blindfold?

Hi, @SaraSunny yes, I am. Well that's the plan! Have a scenario in my head but knowing my luck, it won't turn out like I am imagining! 🤣🤣

@huffyhufferson , get off here and get staring into his eyes before you blindfold him! Just remember you are gorgeous and amazing and he will love every moment with you!

Aww @GarrynotsoGorilla that is such a lovely thing to say. Thank you so much. I just don't want to turn my back on all you lovely MNs. I am so, so grateful to each and everyone of you who have taken the time to reach out and give me good advice and dare I say "a bit of confidence!" I will definitely be back at sometime to update all you fabulous people! X💖🤩

Relax and go with the flow enjoy the moment and make it a incredible time and memory he is considerate and nice what you deserve your lovely enjoy the smiles