Torture Garden outfit

[willtryagain]

Named changed as this is slightly out there.
Anyone been and would care to share photos or descriptions of their outfits? Going to an event soon with my partner, and I'm looking for inspiration. I'm 5 foot 2, size 14 and have big boobs, if that's helpful?

No one?

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I think they have suggestions and dress code on their website? I kind of want to go but always get stuck on what to wear ~ please share when you've decided!

You’ll get no traction here.

women only do kink to please men’s depraved tastes and it’s puts their lives at risk and degrades us to debase ourselves for the male gaze… even if you primarily do it for the female gaze and your own jollies.

I have this in several colour. Great with tight waist coat on top or corset under and some kind of silky feeling skirt that’s easy on and off or a poofy under skirt.

I ordered some large temporary tattoos last time and wore accessories to bring a 7 of 9 meets tank girl look.

Nothing is too much dress up wise except too much covering up!

Oooos forgot the link! I need to go to bed!

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How do you know OP's partner is male?

Its my first time going. And I might chicken out. . Just trying to spice things up, and I'm definitely not looking for images or anything, I can look that up online if I need to! 😂
Just genuinely wondering what to wear. I'm recovering from abdominal surgery so a bit uncomfortable showing off too much skin.
I'm thinking of a corset, possibly leather, but struggling to think of what to wear on bottom half. I'm a bit overweight and really self conscious.
I know they do have guidelines on their website. Just wanted more practical advice on whether there are shops I can go into to try things on, if anyone knows of I can get a corset made to measure. Any top tips?

Oh! And shoes! I find heels uncomfortable as I'm more a trainers girl..

How about clogs?

Ok. Sorry guys. Maybe this isn't the right forum.
Just ignore me. Signing off

A pair of birkenstocks?

Don't be ridiculous, Birkenstocks hate getting wet. Crocs much better.

Don't be ridiculous, Birkenstocks hate getting wet. Crocs much better
What about wellies then? 🤔

Will DM you OP…

I’ve been a few times, it’s great fun. Anything latex would do, but it can be expensive and hard to store/take care of. I found some nice bits on Etsy of all places! Every time I’ve been there’s been people of all shapes and sizes, it’s a much nicer atmosphere than your average club, no one will judge or be nasty!

Been several times, played it safe the first time and regretted not wearing less! Experimented further with subsequent visits and went topless a few times (under bust corset etc)
As per previous posts, it’s a non judgemental crowd so wear what makes you feel good. For reference Im a size 14.
you’ll have an absolute blast and even if its not for you, you won’t regret giving it a go just once

Hey OP, could you ask admin to move this to the sex category, or maybe make a new thread there.
There are several really helpful posters, when it comes to clubs etc. People like PinotPony. Hopefully you'll do better over there.

There are genuine people on that board who are helpful, rather than the pisstaking you're getting here.

Someones sarcasm detector clearly not switched on.

As a woman who primarily kinks with women I am frequently told by a certain flavour of ‘feminist’ that I am a ‘pick me’ who only does it for the male gaze.

Kink, like poly is apparently something I only do because it’s good for men.

My top TG tip is layers.
Its hot in there and you will want to be able to strip down but it can feel a bit much for many to start off baring a lot of flesh.
I take a basic black bag I can stash in a corner somewhere and put my layers in it as the come off.

Remember that episode of Friends OP? most people just aren't comfortable choosing other people's sex clothes 🤷🏽‍♀️

Having been to clubs a few times I'd say a lace lingerie body suit or similar is the standard, although you want something that is ahem... accessible in case you want to play. And don't worry about wobbly bits, all shapes and sizes there!

Kink and sex are not interchangeable.

My sarcasm filter's actually pretty good, but that didn't come across to me in your post for whatever reason. Thanks for explaining though.

Now feel I’ve led a very sheltered life! Heard of sex clubs etc but never heard the term “Torture Garden”.

Not at TG, they specifically says that’s not allowed in the dress code.

A lace body would be ok if paired with a pvc/latex skirt harness etc though.

Go on Instagram and search under #torturegarden