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First time vibrator use, 31 F

27 replies

cloudygal · 05/06/2024 19:52

Wow, had my first ever orgasm today using a clitoral stimulator, I didn't think I could have orgasms. I've always enjoyed sex but it's never hit that peak and WOW, I've been missing out this whole time.

Anyone in the same boat id hugely recommend getting one.

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MovedonfromMartin · 05/06/2024 20:41
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Here for the celebrations! Brilliant news Cloudy. Favourite gif time I feel.
I know it's the wrong sex of firework but you get the idea!

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PTown · 06/06/2024 12:13

Great news!

GigiAnnna · 07/06/2024 10:25

I bought my first vibrator about 12 years ago at the age of 24. I always thought I didn't need one as I could climax without, but they really do take clitoral orgasms to the next level. I'm glad you discovered yours OP.

melanie40 · 07/06/2024 12:02

I couldn't do without mine lol
I have a few in various lengths and width but my fave is my pink rabbit.
Hubby loves watching me use them!

StarlightLady · 07/06/2024 19:10

OP, have you got some catching up to do.

I’ve been buzzing away since l was about 15. Now in my 40s. My little bullet goes everywhere with me in my makeup bag.

Shortandsweet01 · 08/06/2024 17:41

Omg feel like I’m missing out here, I wouldn’t know where to start though. I have always thought the whole vibration thing would be offputting (cus that’s not what the real thing does lol) but sounds like I’m wrong.. where’s good to start? Are they really loud though? One that you use inside or just outside to begin with? I usually get the most intense o’s from “riding” my pillow (embarrassing) but feel like need something more grown up and you babes are selling it! X

StarlightLady · 08/06/2024 17:55

Shortandsweet01 · 08/06/2024 17:41

Omg feel like I’m missing out here, I wouldn’t know where to start though. I have always thought the whole vibration thing would be offputting (cus that’s not what the real thing does lol) but sounds like I’m wrong.. where’s good to start? Are they really loud though? One that you use inside or just outside to begin with? I usually get the most intense o’s from “riding” my pillow (embarrassing) but feel like need something more grown up and you babes are selling it! X

You are missing out, l promise you. Pop into Boots and treat yourself to a Durex Bullet. It won’t break the bank (around £10), good for starting out! Waterproof ones are also available to enhance bath times.

The “real thing” doesn’t vibrate? True! But these are designed to focus on the clitty. That thing that some men (not all thankfully) need a sign post for.

The Bullet is also very quiet, it sort of gently purrs. I’ve had some vibeys that sound akin to a cement mixer in the bedroom.

It’s very much part of my morning wake up routine. I travel a lot for work and one goes everywhere with me.

Happy buzzing.

Shortandsweet01 · 08/06/2024 18:48

StarlightLady · 08/06/2024 17:55

You are missing out, l promise you. Pop into Boots and treat yourself to a Durex Bullet. It won’t break the bank (around £10), good for starting out! Waterproof ones are also available to enhance bath times.

The “real thing” doesn’t vibrate? True! But these are designed to focus on the clitty. That thing that some men (not all thankfully) need a sign post for.

The Bullet is also very quiet, it sort of gently purrs. I’ve had some vibeys that sound akin to a cement mixer in the bedroom.

It’s very much part of my morning wake up routine. I travel a lot for work and one goes everywhere with me.

Happy buzzing.

Ahhh! I need to, I think I’m a bit shy to go and get one in a shop though… I’ll look online! Thank you :)

I think a clit one would be a good starting place and I’ll see where to go from there - also you just gave me a laugh there, that’s one thing I really notice being bi, how men annoying forget that it exists!

lol yes quiet sounds good right now (hopefully I can do the same..ha!)

thank you lovely 😊 x

PTown · 08/06/2024 19:08

Shortandsweet01 · 08/06/2024 17:41

Omg feel like I’m missing out here, I wouldn’t know where to start though. I have always thought the whole vibration thing would be offputting (cus that’s not what the real thing does lol) but sounds like I’m wrong.. where’s good to start? Are they really loud though? One that you use inside or just outside to begin with? I usually get the most intense o’s from “riding” my pillow (embarrassing) but feel like need something more grown up and you babes are selling it! X

I don’t get anything from inside—only outside, so that’s how I use it. I prefer it outside of my knickers—less “intense”, which I find uncomfortable.

PTown · 08/06/2024 19:12

Shortandsweet01 · 08/06/2024 17:41

Omg feel like I’m missing out here, I wouldn’t know where to start though. I have always thought the whole vibration thing would be offputting (cus that’s not what the real thing does lol) but sounds like I’m wrong.. where’s good to start? Are they really loud though? One that you use inside or just outside to begin with? I usually get the most intense o’s from “riding” my pillow (embarrassing) but feel like need something more grown up and you babes are selling it! X

Based on your preferences above, you might try putting it in the right spot of your pillow. 😉

Shortandsweet01 · 08/06/2024 19:13

PTown · 08/06/2024 19:12

Based on your preferences above, you might try putting it in the right spot of your pillow. 😉

You read my mind lol that would work?xx

PTown · 08/06/2024 19:14

Shortandsweet01 · 08/06/2024 19:13

You read my mind lol that would work?xx

Probably. Worth a try. 😉

Shortandsweet01 · 08/06/2024 19:14

PTown · 08/06/2024 19:14

Probably. Worth a try. 😉

I’d let you know how it goes but that would be tmi right…😅 xx

PTown · 08/06/2024 19:15

Shortandsweet01 · 08/06/2024 19:13

You read my mind lol that would work?xx

All you need is a little “bullet”—nothing big & scary.

Shortandsweet01 · 08/06/2024 19:18

PTown · 08/06/2024 19:15

All you need is a little “bullet”—nothing big & scary.

Eek just found one I’m going to add to my basket but now looks like there’s so many and I’m trying not to get carried away.. I need to start somewhere first ha xx

StarlightLady · 08/06/2024 20:15

PTown · 08/06/2024 19:08

I don’t get anything from inside—only outside, so that’s how I use it. I prefer it outside of my knickers—less “intense”, which I find uncomfortable.

I had an Omax for years, marketed saying it could get an orgasm out of a stone”! That was way too intense, but you could regulate it. The Bullet has different dpeeds.

SportGirl · 08/06/2024 20:45

Hot, I found this such an erotic read

cloudygal · 08/06/2024 20:56

Update- I've used it everyday since I got it, absolutely amazing! Mine was 19.99 on love honey, it's a clitoral stimulator.

Wish I'd bought one sooner, can't believe what I've been missing out on.

It's not noisy at all really and it fits nicely in my hand. I'd definitely be able to take it on holidays etc, don't think I could be without it now to be honest, in fact I think (fantasise) about using it multiple times daily (and would if I could)

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BCBird · 08/06/2024 21:14

I was in exactly same position. Didn't bother till mid 40s. Partner used to.love to watch me using it too.and would use it on me. Happy days

Shortandsweet01 · 08/06/2024 22:18

SportGirl · 08/06/2024 20:45

Hot, I found this such an erotic read

Are you just starting too or ?

Anthonysimagination · 09/06/2024 18:55

@StarlightLady

You have just bought back some very fond memories. The Omax was the first vibe I ever bought I think the advert was in FHM about 1993/94.

It was just so ahead of its time. I was young and stupid and only years later realised it was a dual stimulator clit and G spot when you inserted the handle that vibrated and the wider massage bit my partner at the time thought I was a genius lol.

I though it an away when we spit up and always wished I hadn’t. Would love to see it remade.

StarlightLady · 09/06/2024 18:58

Anthonysimagination · 09/06/2024 18:55

@StarlightLady

You have just bought back some very fond memories. The Omax was the first vibe I ever bought I think the advert was in FHM about 1993/94.

It was just so ahead of its time. I was young and stupid and only years later realised it was a dual stimulator clit and G spot when you inserted the handle that vibrated and the wider massage bit my partner at the time thought I was a genius lol.

I though it an away when we spit up and always wished I hadn’t. Would love to see it remade.

Mine lasted until the beginning of last year when it finally died. Lockdown was too much for it l think. I miss it.

Anthonysimagination · 09/06/2024 19:13

@StarlightLady

Just seen on their website that they will service all devices and that some are 32 years old 1992 would be too soon for me.

I recently bought some Bellesa toys but I’ve Got to get one of these again and download the portishead album for old time’s sake (£58)

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