First time vibrator use, 31 F

[cloudygal]

Wow, had my first ever orgasm today using a clitoral stimulator, I didn't think I could have orgasms. I've always enjoyed sex but it's never hit that peak and WOW, I've been missing out this whole time.

Anyone in the same boat id hugely recommend getting one.

I am a guy but have always loved using them with my partners or anything that adds to their relationship pleasure. Sadly my wife is very inhibited, long story, but she is totally closed off to any toy play. I actually bought her a WeVibe in 2016, kind of looks like a U hook shaped kind of thing not a penis shaped vibrator that is supposed to be able to be worn by a woman essentially on the front so it stimulates both the clit and the g spot and still leaves room for penetration and intercourse so couples can use it during sex. Looked like the coolest idea I’ve ever seen and was really excited to see if it worked and could give her all kinds of stimulation for amazing orgasms during sex. Yeah it’s sat unopened in the original box since 2016 cause she is totally shut down to any idea of using it. But bet it would be awesome for anybody else who does use it.

I don’t find my partner using a vibrator to be a threat or competition even though as a guy you always hear the jokes about a woman preferring a vibrator to her partner. I always figured that was urban legend but I actually met one woman where that was sort of true. Dated her for three months. She called it “rabbit burnout” cause she called her vibrator a rabbit but basically she said it was so high powered and she had used it for so long that she sort of desensitized her clit to the point she claimed no guy could get her off through oral or sex or anything, that the only way she could ever cum anymore was the vibrator. I didn’t believe it at first took it as a challenge cause I was a dumb guy in my early 30s. But yeah no matter what we did the only way she could cum was using her high powered vibrator. I don’t know how much of that was in her head self fulfilling prophecy and how much was physiologically true but I accepted it and went with what worked and used it to get her off. That wasn’t why we broke up.

She was only person I ever met who had that issue so I think she was an anomaly and I say however you can get it, get it. Rock on.

Slow down everyone I’ve only just discovered and made the plunge to buy a bullet 😂😂 you’re getting me too excited haha