Hotwifing

[ChloeUK]

Hey ladies!

So, my hubby and I have been having some interesting chats lately, and we've stumbled upon the topic of hotwifing.

At first, I was like, "Wait, what's the catch?" But after some honest discussions (and maybe a cheeky cocktail or two), he laid it all out: his biggest fantasy is watching me have a good time, no strings attached. Talk about intriguing!?

I'm curious to hear from anyone who's dipped their toes into the hotwifing pool. Any stories, advice, or warnings you'd care to share? I'm all ears! Who knows, maybe we'll pick up a few spicy pointers to spice up our own playbook.

The divorce rate of swingers is lower than those in vanilla marriages.

Can you link to the study behind this claim?

I do sometimes wonder whether anyone has studied what experiences hot-husbands might have in common from their childhood years.

Just like @moderate I'm also wondering, is there a source, a study or something to support that, @cricketnut77 ?
Also, to me a "vanilla" marriage already means something is not working too great, so that will push your number up there. If by vanilla you mean something that is just a classic, monogamous relationship of a heterosexual couple, that's a bit of a stretch. Happily together with my wife since we've been university students, and just because I would rather chop my arm off than opening up our relationship, by no means is ours a vanilla marriage.

I Googled about the divorce rate for swingers and this is the answer I got:
There are no reliable, publicly available, or scientific studies to track the specific divorce rate of couples who engage in "wife swapping" or swinging.
Lack of Data: Divorce statistics track general reasons, with infidelity and lack of commitment often cited as major factors, but do not break down specific sexual practices.
Lifestyle Nuance: Many couples who engage in swinging or consensual non-monogamy report that it strengthens their communication and bond, although it can be high-risk if not managed with trust.
General Trends: General divorce statistics are influenced by many factors, with women initiating about 69% to 75% of divorces.

I’ve seen a number of relationships fail by couples into the naughty hobby. I’ve been told by them, it had nothing to do with what goes on with others behind closed doors.

Hotpast?