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Sex bucket list

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mrsed1987 · 11/12/2022 08:38

I've been asked about coming up with a 'bucket list' of things I would like to do or have done to me and I am struggling. It doesn't have to be anything to wild and could be things I want done to myself as well at with him.

I wondered what is on yours? To give me some ideas!

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Monmouthy · 11/12/2022 08:41

Asked by who

shruggingitoff · 11/12/2022 14:37

Surely you have fantasies or things that you would like to explore?

And yes, who is asking you this question?

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mrsed1987 · 11/12/2022 17:39

My husband.

Yes of course I do, but I was wondering what other people's are, just for inspiration.

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PinotPony · 12/12/2022 10:27

It's entirely subjective though... my fantasies won't be anything like your fantasies. Surely you know what you like..?

I've done most of mine with the exception of a blindfolded gangbang! That might be too wild for you though... 😂

Dorisisfreezing · 12/12/2022 11:01

An afternoon in a Mayfair Hotel with a lover.
I might manage that.

DeltaAlphaDelta79 · 12/12/2022 12:27

PinotPony · 12/12/2022 10:27

It's entirely subjective though... my fantasies won't be anything like your fantasies. Surely you know what you like..?

I've done most of mine with the exception of a blindfolded gangbang! That might be too wild for you though... 😂

Completely agree with PP. Mine and DW's bucket list items are completely different, we have done most of each others, but there will definitely be a couple of things from each that won't get ticked off.

Is he asking for yours so that he can help tick things off, or just to talk about as fantasy? Sometimes the fantasy is better than the reality!

newtb · 13/12/2022 12:49

To have sex with someone who'd focused on my pleasure and not their own. I live in Hope after a 40 year abusive marriage and divorce

GentlemanJay · 13/12/2022 13:01

It's ok to not have a bucket list. Don't be pushed into a corner to try to fit in. Your husband may be more adventurous as you.

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mrsed1987 · 14/12/2022 10:24

I absolutely know everyone's will be different but was just interested. Won't bother again!

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briancormorant · 15/12/2022 11:14

@mrsed1987 I think some are getting confused. (and po-faced)
You described it as a bucket list, which I took to be realisable ambitions. Even if extremely ambitious.
Some guys here are waffling on about fantasies.
I like both but they are separate.
Have you come up with any yet? Or PM me if you want to avoid the carping. Then I'll tell you mine! (ooh really)

Rieslinger · 15/12/2022 12:05

Outdoors, rooms in the home, home movie making, hot tub...we're pretty Vanilla tbh..we have discussed going to a sex club but only for viewing not taking part.

DeltaAlphaDelta79 · 15/12/2022 16:21

Rieslinger · 15/12/2022 12:05

Outdoors, rooms in the home, home movie making, hot tub...we're pretty Vanilla tbh..we have discussed going to a sex club but only for viewing not taking part.

Yep pretty much the same as ours, altho we have ticked off all but the sex party. MMF and FFM still to be hopefully ticked off at some point too.

bedtimeisthebest · 15/12/2022 17:02

PinotPony

A blindfolded gangbang!

Never even considered that but sounds great fun

Is it blindfolded so you don't know who you're having sex with?

I could start with a blindfolded threesome, but I'm sure I'd know who is who.

Thisisworsethananticpated · 16/12/2022 07:00

I want to have a threesome with a male female couple

then I can try women but with a man watching and enjoying

PinotPony · 16/12/2022 08:34

bedtimeisthebest · 15/12/2022 17:02

PinotPony

A blindfolded gangbang!

Never even considered that but sounds great fun

Is it blindfolded so you don't know who you're having sex with?

I could start with a blindfolded threesome, but I'm sure I'd know who is who.

Yes, just the feeling of lots of bodies without knowing who. Such a turn on.

We're going away with 14 friends next month so hoping to make it a reality and tick it off my list... although everyone has their own list so we might be quite busy! 😂

HippyDippyDooDaa · 18/12/2022 00:41

I love the idea of a blindfolded mmf with my fwb as one of the men. We've tried mff which was fun! 😁

bedtimeisthebest · 18/12/2022 09:44

PinotPony · 16/12/2022 08:34

Yes, just the feeling of lots of bodies without knowing who. Such a turn on.

We're going away with 14 friends next month so hoping to make it a reality and tick it off my list... although everyone has their own list so we might be quite busy! 😂

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14 friends, wow, Is this going to be a sex filled weekend with everyone getting involved?

We had our couple with benefits over this weekend and I mentioned the blindfold thing and the female in the other couple in particular got excited by the idea so I thing we'll be having a blindfolded experience in the New Year, so thanks for the heads up on this PinotPony

CallieQ · 19/12/2022 01:20

Where can I get a sex bucket Xmas Confused

DailyMailReporterTellMeAllYourSecrets · 19/12/2022 12:01

I loved it when I had a FWB. That was way before I got with DH. We both knew the deal but it was great to be able to text when we were feeling horny and just go for it. Loved it 😍

PinotPony · 19/12/2022 16:57

@bedtimeisthebest Yes, they're all KK friends so the whole weekend has been arranged with the intention of playing together. I've suggested we might get dressed one day to have lunch at the local pub though..! 😂

dingdongdingdongsding · 19/12/2022 21:22

I have to be honest, the whole sex with strangers doesn't do it for me.

However, with someone I feel comfortable with, and have a decent level of intimacy (day to day and sexual), I can be quite naughty.

Anal orgasms, temperature play (esp cold) and outdoors are areas on which I am very curious.

But doing that with someone who I haven't explored the vanilla with is just such a turn off for me. Which is a bit of a stumbling block, I guess

Rieslinger · 21/12/2022 09:57

So is a sex bucket for the well endowed for a wash up after sex?

PinotPony · 22/12/2022 15:50

Rieslinger · 21/12/2022 09:57

So is a sex bucket for the well endowed for a wash up after sex?

Like "penis beaker", only larger...?

Crestaq · 26/12/2022 04:26

dingdongdingdongsding · 19/12/2022 21:22

I have to be honest, the whole sex with strangers doesn't do it for me.

However, with someone I feel comfortable with, and have a decent level of intimacy (day to day and sexual), I can be quite naughty.

Anal orgasms, temperature play (esp cold) and outdoors are areas on which I am very curious.

But doing that with someone who I haven't explored the vanilla with is just such a turn off for me. Which is a bit of a stumbling block, I guess

I read this as sex outdoors in the cold, which sounds so hideous 😔

SonofDeva · 12/06/2025 10:47

@mrsed1987 @Crestaq Ready all these fantasies is quite interesting. I hope @mrsed1987 you managed to fulfil your bucket list and @Crestaq i say what's one (wo)man's meat is another ones poison!! Me? Mine's a wish rather than a fantasy, and is my wife and I to rediscover intimacy again. As we have only had sex twice in the last 8 years

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