Sex bucket list

[mrsed1987]

I've been asked about coming up with a 'bucket list' of things I would like to do or have done to me and I am struggling. It doesn't have to be anything to wild and could be things I want done to myself as well at with him.

I wondered what is on yours? To give me some ideas!

More of a fantasy than a bucket list. To connect with a stranger on the underground. Get off with them at an earlier stop, and walk them home. Kiss, go down on them, say goodbye without exchanging info and get back on the underground. Arrive home as if nothing ever happened.

Oxford Circus, 5.30pm on Friday then. I'll wear a white carnation. Easy. Tick. 😊

I totally get this dynamic. My hubby is a lot more adventurous and kinky than I am. He has a bucket list as long as his arm, and he's always thinking I have way more fantasies that I need to confess for him to fulfill, but actually I don't have that many. Not that are left to tick off any way.

I have a fantasy where a partner would have told her friends about my orgasm and one evening after they have been drinking they encouraged me to show them with help from my partner. They take pictures and such. Less bucket list and more fantasy granted.

Not bucket list (don’t do them!) but I recently got one of my biggest fantasies indulged which was rather nice! We both enjoyed so hoping it will happen again at some point

I have a lot, I've led a very vanilla set up and think I could have a kink in me, just a slight one. Not managed to find someone to do them with yet.
Sadly, top of my list is receiving oral sex for longer than 30 seconds and having an orgasm in the presence of a man.

To have sex with someone I love and to climax together with the top note of the Elgar cello concerto - would be absolutely mind blowing

Doggy or BJ would be a dream!!

Pegging!

The infamous "zipless fuck" coined by Erica Jong en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fear_of_Flying_(novel)

@mrsed1987You're quite right to be miffed, you haven't had one straight answer. I've always fancied watching other people but, one, never suggested it personally and two, I think that might go beyond the scope of a reasonable bucket list. Then again, maybe not !

I’m sorry that this is something you don’t already have (I know your story from the S.M thread).

I want to have sex outdoors again. It’s been 10 years 🥹

I saw, some years ago, an interview in a paper with a male porn star, where he was asked what was on his sexual bucket list. He said he'd really like to have sex with a woman he loved...

Not disimilar to what's at the top of my list ... though as I'm not a porn star, for very different reasons. 😭

Sex outdoors where we were close to other people. We could see them but they did not know we were there. Managed it recently with DH. we were behind a hedge near a footpath, we could hear their voices.
Probably once was enough.

It's been my experience that fantasies are often best left as fantasies. There are so many things that go one way in your imagination and, when enacted in real life, are different and often disappointing.

For me, that includes having sex with more than one person at a time (I seem to suffer from men's inability to multitask effectively 🙄) and anal sex, which was a real fascination for me until I tried it and found that the practical difficuties, as well as the fact that, from a man's perspective, it doesn't feel much different to piv, mean that the excitement of breaking a taboo isn't sufficient compensation.

Equally there have been other things which didn't particularly excite me as a concept but, much to my surprise, turned out to be very sexy.

That's all part of the joy of sex and relationships, isn't it? Exploring with someone you trust completely and seeing what works

Thanks! I havent given up hope of ticking them off the list someday!