Sex Toys

[sarahmum1978]

My current partner recently gave me a sex toy and said that he wanted to include it when we made love. I did already have a toy but he didn't now that and I feel uncomfortable doing it with him watching. Am I being unfair not doing what excites him?

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Using toys during sex is amazing, either using them yourself or letting him. However, if it's not something you're comfortable with then you absolutely shouldn't. Maybe try it once and see if you like it? I was shy the first time as it's super intimate but once you get past the shyness it's hot!

M here. I had a gf who let me use her sex toys on her - verdict?

"You're much better than me at using them on me!"

I don't mind him watching sometimes as I know he likes it but normally I only like it for alone time as I get lost in my own head. And hate anyone else controlling it as I'm very precise.