The male orgasm

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I've just got back from a few wonderful days away with DP.

This morning he orgasmed 3 times in 2 hours. After no.2 orgasm, he was commenting on how drained he felt and how shriveled his testicles were.

No. 3 orgasm wasn't expected at all...we started kissing again before getting dressed and I'm so happy one thing led to another.

After he came, he lay on the bed and jokingly told me he thought he'd burst a blood vessel with that last one. He said it wasn't painful, just a little uncomfortable and he didn't think there was anything left in him to give.

So my question is...can several male orgasms in a short space of time cause pain? If we'd gone for no.4, would it have hurt him? I asked him, and he said he didn't know, as he'd never repeatedly cum that much that quickly. He thought it wouldn't, but Google isn't helping on this one. I want to know for future use, hopefully!!!!

We're both mid 40s, if that's relevant.

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No idea, as I have never had 3 orgasms in 2 hours when I was in my 40s. Fair play to him though! It didn't hurt when I was in my 20s though!

I would need a day to recover after that...

I tend to end up with pain if I 'haven't' done anything for a while, so to speak.

I used to be able to do that but that was back in my 20's. Good news Op

It's great news, isn't it @Woodsie54 🤣

We spent the rest of the day but doing much @topcat2014 as he needed time to recover too.

Thanks for letting me know it didn't hurt in your 20s @Parky04 I'm hoping age doesn't make a difference.

We might find out, we might not. It'll definitely be fun trying. Thanks all.

When I was in my 30s I had a very active gf and we would have sex five times a day when we were together. These would be spread out throughout the day though.

I am in my mid-forties and was able to orgasm three times in 90 minutes with my wife last week. It is rare we have enough energy and interest for 90 minutes of sex.

As regards pain: yes, it did hurt a little for the rest of the day. Mainly due to the friction and some tough action on my frenulum.

But next day all fine.

I must be a very fortunate woman, but this has been quite a normal thing for the men I've been with post-divorce! I think I'd struggle with a 'one and done' man now 😂

Pushing 60 so I would need an IV and an AED after that!

I can sometimes cum 2/3 times in a short time frame could do 4/5 in my forties more in my 20’s and 30’s
I find I just my balls and the general area is just aching for a while
not painful and soon recovers for me no price to pay at all

Don't say that 🤣🤣🤣

Thanks for all the further experiences shared. He didn't seem in any pain. Maybe I'll encourage number 4 next time 😁

So my question is...can several male orgasms in a short space of time cause pain? If we'd gone for no.4, would it have hurt him? I asked him, and he said he didn't know, as he'd never repeatedly cum that much that quickly

not pain as such, after orgasm the glans can be hypersensitive for a while, and can get bit sore tbh.
for me the issue is recovery period, I could probably do 2 in 3 hours, but would probably get bored with more than that.

My XP used to joke that he was just shooting sawdust by the third one. It certainly wasn’t as easy to make it happen and he got a bit desensitised but 3 times in 24 hours wasn’t unusual in the early days (he was mid 30s then).

Once I managed to make him ejaculate twice within about 2 minutes but the first one didn’t actually come with an orgasm, almost like one of those sneezes that fizzles out and then you get the proper sneeze a moment later - that was interesting

My DH doesn't seem to be able to go again quickly at all after he's finished. Is that something that can be learned, or is it a biological thing?