How often do you use lube?

[Brawoe1]

I’m wondering if I under use it for those of you that have had various partners, how usual is it to get the lube out??

---

If you've found this page in search of lubes that have been tried and tested by fellow Mumsnet users, you might find our guide to the best lubricants useful. Hope this helps! MNHQ

@Brawoe1 , just tell him it’s more pleasant for you with lube. Most men will be happy to go along with it. Don’t overthink it! Good luck

@Brawoe1 , there’s no etiquette! Say you’d like to try it, that’s it!

Yeah, I think when I say etiquette I meant more the how to get it where it needs to be!

Wait until the guy has an erection, apply a bit of lube on your fingers and away you go,

@Brawoe1 , you have to work it out between you! It will be different for everyone, so experiment & discuss until you find what works for you both!

On the 'etiquette' issue, I've never felt I had to 'discuss' using lube at all - if I felt it was needed, or would just help things along, I just used it, maybe, as I've already said, saying something like 'Need a little help here', but that was it. And none of my partners seemed fazed by it at all. Just chill, I'd say