Pegging the Wife? anyone else done this

[isitsummertimeyet]

Excuse the turn of phrase.

Recently had a circumcision which will take between 6/8 weeks to heal to allow me to get back in the game and im more than happy inbetween this time to still provide as much oral pleasure to the wife as she wishes without recipication (not that i can anyway) as i get off on seeing her satisfied but i know she misses PIV as well as being pleasured orally.

So I mentioned to her earlier, it would be a huge turn on for me whilst the willy is in recovery mode to wear a strap on and still give her some PIV action, suprisingly shes agreed and im pretty excited to try this.

Got a starter one from lovehoney so no idea if its gonna be good or not but didnt wanna scare her off with a 10" monster from the off.

Has anyone elses husbands done this as part of the fun in the bedroom or am I turning into some kind of cuck :O

I thought it keeps it fun and spiced up and she still gets her pleasure as often as she likes.

Not tried this, but this crossed my mind the other day when I was looking through love honey, I saw a strap on and I instantly thought I wonder if my dp would use ot on me?

Haven't had that conversation yet but I'm sure he'd be up for it.. let me know how it goes.

Have fun 😉

@Snow234

Not tried this, but this crossed my mind the other day when I was looking through love honey, I saw a strap on and I instantly thought I wonder if my dp would use ot on me?

Haven't had that conversation yet but I'm sure he'd be up for it.. let me know how it goes.

Have fun 😉

I did debate one with a hollow shaft but in my current circumstance it was probably easier not having my bits involved at all, hopefully if she enjoys this, we can look at getting one that is bigger than me to see how she reacts to a more filling experience.

Part of me secretly hopes she will perhaps suggest she uses it on me but im not sure im confident enough to sow the seed to her, this was hard enough to summon up the courage to suggest.

fingers crossed, we are both off Thurs so hoping it arrives tomorrow to surprise her.

I gently bought this up with my BF and he instantly took it the wrong way thinking he is not big enough for me... . Where as I just saw it as a bit of fun. Oh well. Good luck 🤞

Good luck ,but if I brought it up my dp reaction would be exactly like @cosmicbabe.

I think I would enjoy it during the healing time but you can’t replace the feeling of a real cock.
I wouldn’t be up for pegging my male partner though.

We have a large cock sleeve that my do uses with me. The feeling is definitely not as good as the real thing but I love the full feeling. DP does have some insecurities with it though.

This could be useful for keeping the fun going when things finish too quickly or when losing erection. May try this out if wife is agreeable - occasionally I can lose erection when changing positions.

It wont be a full time replacement for the real deal and ill be honest she isnt the type to say yes so was taken aback when she said yeah lets give it a try, hopefully with a view to slightly bigger ones if this works and she enjoys it, shes enjoying having the entire act all about her whilst im out of action so when shes finished she can literally straddle off my face and jobs done without being concerned of returning any favours, feels very much like a chastity life and the healing still got at least 5 weeks or longer left.

Shame your partners/husbands will not consider it as a act of fun, its harmless at the end of the day. x

I was circumcised in my early 20s, and I spent most of my time trying to avoid boners in fear of popping stitches and wounds. Morning wood was a nervy time for me. If you're feeling OK though, I'd probably just focus on toys and manual play, as there is some risk of knocking your recovering bits while thrusting. It's only 6 weeks.

I've tried sleeves with a few GFs over the years. 10/10 would recommend for a bit of fun and spicing things up. Pro-tip (pun intended 🙂)...warm it up in a sink of hot water before use. There's enough overwhelming sensations going on already without it being a bit cold. Oh...and lube. Lots of it.

Enjoy your new dick 😅. It takes a bit of getting used to, but the sensitivity will subside a bit. Some partners like it better, some aren't fussed. I personally prefer it.

I have only ever been with my Dh who was circumcised as a child so I do not know any different. Of course I have seen others (not in RL) on the TV etc. and I would a 100% say a circumcised penis is much better looking.

Out of interest what is the reason for getting this procedure done, assuming non-medical?

For most adult males in the U.K. it is for medical reasons.
www.nhs.uk/conditions/circumcision-in-men/

@IsItJustMeOrYou

Out of interest what is the reason for getting this procedure done, assuming non-medical?

Some religions, tradition, persons opinion such as health and lower risk to some diseases.

I thought it was mostly done on those with tight foreskin, also for religious reasons. The thought makes me wince and I don’t even have a penis.
Does it improve sensations too?

Absolutely - we've been using one on and off for a couple of years, a few months ago we went up a size and boy does she love it.

Thank you for the link. The risks are a bit worrying

@IsItJustMeOrYou I do have a penis, and it makes me wince as well !
Most of the tradition / religion circumcised man are done while quite young, so avoid the issues above with stitches etc.
In the UK most procedures on adult males are for medical reasons generally related to foreskin issues.
As for sensation (for a man at least), I believe it can lower sensations as the foreskin keeps the skin of the glands moist, once it’s removed the glands become dry and the skin gets thicker on the tip

@IsItJustMeOrYou

I have only ever been with my Dh who was circumcised as a child so I do not know any different. Of course I have seen others (not in RL) on the TV etc. and I would a 100% say a circumcised penis is much better looking.

Out of interest what is the reason for getting this procedure done, assuming non-medical?

Phimosis unfortunatly started about 6 years ago, after sex one time the end of the foreskin had lots of mini tears in it that healed but then split every time the foreskin went back, over time it became more painful, so i stopped trying to pull it back when erect, it made sex incredibly painful to the point it was easier to just perform oral sex on the wife and i went without but if i didnt address it id end up not using it again so i bit the bullet and got it circumcised. im 8 days in now and its slowly healing, its swollen like mad, a girth id only dream of having as it looks but sadly that will go over time.

so im sure ill get to enjoy sex again in time though much of my enjoyment now is totally giving 100% of the rude fun to the wife to the point id consider letting her control when i can come (like a chastity device) which i mentioned as whilst i cant use my willy shes seen a change in me being more attentive and honing my focus on her instead of other stuff.

See how it goes going forward

@isitsummertimeyetOuch, that all sounds awfully painful
Hopefully you will back ‘in the saddle’ again soon🍻

@isitsummertimeyet - You’ll just have to hope she doesn’t get too used to the strap-on 😬

[quote Isthisitforever]@isitsummertimeyet - You’ll just have to hope she doesn’t get too used to the strap-on 😬[/quote]
ha, as long as its not a permanent replacement I'm happy for it to be part of the bedroom fun, I'm pretty open to new stuff, this is only a beginners one so no bigger than the real deal..

Whatever she wants im happy to go with , its all fun anyway

Well I hope you both have fun and I hope your man bits get better soon 👍🏻

@Isthisitforever

Well I hope you both have fun and I hope your man bits get better soon 👍🏻

haha, me too, I think the more I check if they are healing the slower they appear to be making a difference.

Need a new hobby whilst I wait. :)

@BasicDad

I was circumcised in my early 20s, and I spent most of my time trying to avoid boners in fear of popping stitches and wounds. Morning wood was a nervy time for me. If you're feeling OK though, I'd probably just focus on toys and manual play, as there is some risk of knocking your recovering bits while thrusting. It's only 6 weeks.

I've tried sleeves with a few GFs over the years. 10/10 would recommend for a bit of fun and spicing things up. Pro-tip (pun intended 🙂)...warm it up in a sink of hot water before use. There's enough overwhelming sensations going on already without it being a bit cold. Oh...and lube. Lots of it.

Enjoy your new dick 😅. It takes a bit of getting used to, but the sensitivity will subside a bit. Some partners like it better, some aren't fussed. I personally prefer it.

This (spending time trying to avoid it post op)! Same for me

You dont realise how often you think about it until you cant use it, im pretty sure pre op I was nowhere near as bothered as i am now Im not allowed, must have at least 20 thoughts a day and thats not a good thing when your trying to keep boners out of sight for the next 6 weeks.
Least i know it still works 'kinda'

I'm not sure about a strap on although I do enjoy DH sometimes using a vibrator on me

Re the circumcision. Sure you will be happy with it. My DH had one fairly recently and was his choice although he did know I really liked the circumcised look...but I didn't say anything more. Yes recovery is gentle and slow but he was really pleased with the result...I loved it compared. We had a weekend away the first time he used it!

The DR who circumcised DH said more guys are choosing it, especially if there is a medical condition; they are often opting straight for circumcision rather using creams and taking months etc

I love the look just when DH walks back from the shower etc..all on show!!

Best if luck