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Pegging the Wife? anyone else done this

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isitsummertimeyet · 06/07/2021 14:46

Excuse the turn of phrase.

Recently had a circumcision which will take between 6/8 weeks to heal to allow me to get back in the game and im more than happy inbetween this time to still provide as much oral pleasure to the wife as she wishes without recipication (not that i can anyway) as i get off on seeing her satisfied but i know she misses PIV as well as being pleasured orally.

So I mentioned to her earlier, it would be a huge turn on for me whilst the willy is in recovery mode to wear a strap on and still give her some PIV action, suprisingly shes agreed and im pretty excited to try this.

Got a starter one from lovehoney so no idea if its gonna be good or not but didnt wanna scare her off with a 10" monster from the off.

Has anyone elses husbands done this as part of the fun in the bedroom or am I turning into some kind of cuck :O

I thought it keeps it fun and spiced up and she still gets her pleasure as often as she likes.

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isitsummertimeyet · 09/07/2021 08:00

@Namechangednorth

I'm not sure about a strap on although I do enjoy DH sometimes using a vibrator on me

Re the circumcision. Sure you will be happy with it. My DH had one fairly recently and was his choice although he did know I really liked the circumcised look...but I didn't say anything more. Yes recovery is gentle and slow but he was really pleased with the result...I loved it compared. We had a weekend away the first time he used it!

The DR who circumcised DH said more guys are choosing it, especially if there is a medical condition; they are often opting straight for circumcision rather using creams and taking months etc

I love the look just when DH walks back from the shower etc..all on show!!

Best if luck

I tried the creams, It probably started about 7 years ago and gradually gotten worse to the point of about 3 years ago I literally was wincing if I had PIV so ended up being the specialist in every other area to keep my wife satified (which she wasnt complaining about at all, infact she prefers oral performed now more than the actual act itself as ive done it this way so long)

It 100% looks better, even if mine is a sorry looking thing as it heals, wish id gone down the route much sooner, though i did actually get the ball rolling on this back in 2019 but due to covid its only just been able to be done.

Had a vasectomy at the same time too (2 kids already wife is 40 and neither of us relish a surprise 3rd child) so get both issues fixed at the same time.

Did your husband do his purely for comestic reasons ? Brave fella :)

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Namechangednorth · 09/07/2021 13:20

@isitsummertimeyet

Did your husband do his purely for comestic reasons ? Brave fella :)"

He had what he felt was a lot of foreskin and although he is fairly large below he seemed self conscious about it. He talked a little about it and when he asked I said I thought the circumcised look is nice. He looked into it and of course you have to go private but he had a consultation and the doctor was very reassuring that an increasing number of men chose to have for cosmetic reasons. The doctor had availability later that day so DH decided to go for it.

He had what the dr described as a fairly tight cut so all the excess foreskin was snipped. Once he had recovered he loved the look as did I, and I really love the feel as well. He loves me complimenting him on how nice it looks

He has no regrets and wish he had done before.

isitsummertimeyet · 09/07/2021 14:57

[quote Namechangednorth]@isitsummertimeyet

Did your husband do his purely for comestic reasons ? Brave fella :)"

He had what he felt was a lot of foreskin and although he is fairly large below he seemed self conscious about it. He talked a little about it and when he asked I said I thought the circumcised look is nice. He looked into it and of course you have to go private but he had a consultation and the doctor was very reassuring that an increasing number of men chose to have for cosmetic reasons. The doctor had availability later that day so DH decided to go for it.

He had what the dr described as a fairly tight cut so all the excess foreskin was snipped. Once he had recovered he loved the look as did I, and I really love the feel as well. He loves me complimenting him on how nice it looks

He has no regrets and wish he had done before.

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Was done due to years of Phimosis and painful PIV so hopefully this is a massive gamechanger.

They do look a lot better once you adjust to the strange sensation of not having a foreskin to protect the glans when wearing clothes.

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Roch91 · 18/07/2021 13:14

Just read this thread & im intrigued...did you use it & how was it?

isitsummertimeyet · 18/07/2021 21:05

ha, well, yeah we went out on a rare night (kids over at gparents for 1st time ever)

got home with a takeaway and she said let that warm in the oven and go upstairs so whilst she was in the bathroom i slipped it on quickly and threw on some shorts, started intimacy and got the juices going, then dropped off the shorts so it wasnt awkward putting it on infront of her so i was prepared.. it kind worked though my semi broken willy was tring to poke his way into the action too (broke due to healing from recent circumcision) but after a couple of positions i chose to finish her off orally, She said afterwards it could be used again but get a bigger one (this was only 5" as its a beginner one and i didnt wanna scare her off) as its not as big as me, so im gonna look to order either a 7" or 8.5" for the next time the kids are away and i think bigger will be more fun for her too, felt positions were limited with it being a bit on the small side.

Was fun though, dipped our toe into it, hopefully play more in the not distant future.

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Femme99 · 18/07/2021 22:54

8.5 inches! That’s quite big ya know 😳

isitsummertimeyet · 19/07/2021 17:33

@Femme99

8.5 inches! That’s quite big ya know 😳
mine is than 6.5 so it want it to be a bit larger than me when we play normal. maybe settle on 7" for the next one to try then lol.
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ScottishZoe · 22/07/2021 09:23

Glad it worked out for you.

I've used sleeves with partners who are on the smaller side, not as good as the real thing but better than small ones.

isitsummertimeyet · 22/07/2021 11:38

@ScottishZoe

Glad it worked out for you.

I've used sleeves with partners who are on the smaller side, not as good as the real thing but better than small ones.

sounds fun, i wouldn't need to use one to extend my own as it seems to do the job quite nicer on its own without help, this was more for the fact i cant use it in its current state but didn't want to have to wait 6/8 weeks for either us to be able to have any fun at all. Plus spicing up the fun can only ever be a good thing I think.
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Thelittleweasel · 22/07/2021 15:10

@isitsummertimeyet

THE wife? I have not heard that expression for decades. If you refer to her as such I doubt you'll get very far!

isitsummertimeyet · 22/07/2021 17:13

[quote Thelittleweasel]@isitsummertimeyet

THE wife? I have not heard that expression for decades. If you refer to her as such I doubt you'll get very far![/quote]
Im not over familiar with all the acumens on here so you'll have to bare with me on that note. i have to go and google half of them

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ScottishZoe · 22/07/2021 17:48

@isitsummertimeyet More fun than with one less than 5" but yes yours would be big enough that I wouldn't suggest using a sleeve.

isitsummertimeyet · 22/07/2021 18:16

[quote ScottishZoe]@isitsummertimeyet More fun than with one less than 5" but yes yours would be big enough that I wouldn't suggest using a sleeve.[/quote]
post circumcision the girth had swollen up to 6.5inchs wide at one point.so would have to be one hell of an extender for a women to have to probing her lol

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me4real · 30/07/2021 03:04

I think I actually prefer receiving a strap on to sex with a real penis. You can get hollow ones so there's somewhere for the bloke's knob to go. If you feel like it at some point after you're allowed, you can get some that are both hollow and vibrating, so they feel nice for the man, too.

isitsummertimeyet · 30/07/2021 14:06

@me4real

I think I actually prefer receiving a strap on to sex with a real penis. You can get hollow ones so there's somewhere for the bloke's knob to go. If you feel like it at some point after you're allowed, you can get some that are both hollow and vibrating, so they feel nice for the man, too.
Tbh once I'm healed I'll be on the job ASAP.. extras are not needed these were just something whilst im outta action if she wanted but tbh hasn't really been pushed for me using.. eta 4 weeks for my recovery so...
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