Willies are rank???

[Pulpfiction1]

So dh is away I've had a couple of glasses of wine and I'm watching naked attraction.

Is it just me that thinks willies are horrible. I really don't like them and it makes me feel uncomfortable looking at them.

I googled if this was normal and found a forum where someone asked the same question and she was told she was gay.

So now I'm intreagued to know if it's common for hetro women to find willies repulsive. I don't do anything with dh's either, he does stuff to me but I never touch his. I don't like to. Only once in a while if very drunk.

Is this weird?

I think soft ones are, but a different story when they're hard. Well some are uglier than others.

But so are vaginas, when you think about it. Have you never heard of the expression ‘bumping uglies’?

“So now I'm intreagued to know if it's common for hetro women to find willies repulsive. I don't do anything with dh's either, he does stuff to me but I never touch his. I don't like to. Only once in a while if very drunk.“

That doesn’t sound particularly brilliant for either of you.

I’d probably be looking more at if you’re actually happy in your relationship before anything else.

I don’t think they are particularly pretty but l like playing with them and feeling their responses.

PS: l don’t think it’s about being gay, I’m attracted to men and women, but l do wonder if something in your upbringing us causing problems.

Not touching each other, (I assume this means no oral too?) regardless of gender, is not positive in sexuality or a relationship.

Well as the show progressed they brought on fannies and I didn't like the look of them either unless they were the very tucked away ones.

I've never liked willies or giving bjs. I've had quite a few partners and did bjs n stuff when I was younger as it was expected. But dh is happy to do all the giving and then move on to sex which I'm happy with also. I'm sure we're not the only couple in the world that don't do bjs. Dh doesn't even like them. I sometimes do stuff to him if I'm very drunk.

OP, if you are both perfectly happy, there’s no issue, is there?

My DW(2) thinks that penises are not attractive to look at, positively avoids looking at them (and women’s bits) when we are at clothing optional beaches or in nude scenes in movies, but is very happy to play with mine soft or hard and give BJs. But, as a previous poster said, if you’re both happy, then there’s no problem.

If honest i agree. ive never liked looking at a dick n lot of the men ive slept with needed better hygiene etc. I accept they are essential to full sex but unless stiff i find them pretty rank. NOO way will i ever have near my mouth. That is simply too far. Unless doing the deed they are best kept covered hun. With you all the way.

OP, if you are both perfectly happy, there’s no issue, is there?

Theres no issue with our sex life.

I was just intrigued to know if other women found willies gross or if I was unusual.

I can't look directly at a penis. I was worried when I found out I was pregnant with a boy that I wouldn't be able to manage nappy changes!

A flaccid willy isn’t top of my to see list either

However, a girthy erect penis is a different matter!

It's just a body part! Hard to call any part of a body ugly because what exactly are you comparing it to to make that statement?

Yeah, all bits are pretty 'ick' in my opinion, I try not to think about it too much with DTD!

I think plenty of hetero women do not aesthetically like willies - I started an interesting thread a while back about 'does any woman actually want to get a dick pic' and some women did like them (preferable solicited!) but others were really 'No thanks, I would never ask'.

I reckon men can more easily be turned on by body parts in isolation than women can - whenever I've seen porn and it's lots of disembodied dripping bits I'm like 'Ewww, I don't want to see that, thanks!' but presumably it turns a lot of guys on (I'd much rather see a full shot of some hot people getting it on and enjoying themselves, but porn doesn't really seem to do that)

Thankfully it does not seem like I am the only person who does not do certain things. We are a bit straight forward and yet I am having the best time ever.

As a man I have to say I feel sorry for you ladies as the last turkey in the shop look isn't very attractive at all. A fully erect penis on the other hand should be more desirable.
Me do tend to be hygenically challenged when it comes to keeping the weapon clean but a good shower before bed should sort that out. Nothing worse than a pissy willy.

As a man even I’m forced to admit they aren’t the prettiest of appendages, God was so busy trying to get them to work he had no time left for design.

Then to compound the problem, he gave us testicles. As Billy Connelly famously said, it’s like he had a bit of wrinkly skin left over from elbows and thought it would do as wee bags to stick our balls into.

Vaginas are worse looking in my honest opinion

I said the exact same thing about sillies on NA - id rather look at boobs 😳

Vaginas are worse looking in my honest opinion.

To be pedantic, I think I’m right to say you can’t actually see vaginas Sorry! For me, like boobs I don’t think there’s such a thing as ugly ones, they’re all delightful and the source so much pleasure.

As for penis hygiene, apart from showering I regularly wash my bell-end in the sink before washing my hands.

However, a girthy erect penis is a different matter!

This made me throw up in my mouth a bit.

Agree porn is horrible. A sex scene in a movie is much more of a turn on.

I would not be happy if dh was washing his cock in the kitchen sink.

@Plupfiction 1, I don't want to alarm you but many men will wash their tackle in the bathroom sink.
It's part of a quick wash that many men will do if they don't have time for a shower.
Myself I would worry more about what us guys are drying their bits on.
Mrs Firewalker bought me small towels, larger than a flannel smaller than a hand towel, which I use to dry my parts then straight into the hamper. Give the sink a quick wash and hey presto happy wife.

I don't think C4 Naked Attraction is a good vantage point to look at any part of the human body. The show would be better named 'Morbid Fascination'. During the odd occasion I've watched a few minutes of it, it's reminded me a dark lab with pickled human specimens inside giant test tubes - regardless of how 'fit' the individual is. The clinical commentary doesn't help. I'd imagine most people watch it with a degree of revulsion, at most intrigue, not attraction.

The people that go in naked attraction are 110% whack jobs.
The things they say are so weird, so overtly sexual and clinical at the same time.

My dh has confirmed that only tramp men that don't shower wash their cocks in the sink.

That’s why I love bidets!