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Willies are rank???

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Pulpfiction1 · 12/01/2020 20:38

So dh is away I've had a couple of glasses of wine and I'm watching naked attraction.

Is it just me that thinks willies are horrible. I really don't like them and it makes me feel uncomfortable looking at them.

I googled if this was normal and found a forum where someone asked the same question and she was told she was gay.

So now I'm intreagued to know if it's common for hetro women to find willies repulsive. I don't do anything with dh's either, he does stuff to me but I never touch his. I don't like to. Only once in a while if very drunk.

Is this weird?

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Jane1978xx · 14/01/2020 23:04

I quite like them

Namechangedyorkshire · 15/01/2020 05:56

Well..I wouldn't generalise and say I just like penis's just like I guess blokes don't like every women's bits either. I also think that what the penis is attached to makes a big difference as well, ie do they have a body you are attracted to?

Yes, I'm attracted to DH body and yes I like the look of his penis. That includes when we are not having sex so if he gets out of the shower and he likes me complimenting him. But he also knows that I love that his is a nice size and also circumcised which I find really nice as a look as well as in bed.
Equally he likes that I'm very neat below so yes, not much showing at all if honest !

Watched Naked Attraction once and ..well no I don't get how you could go in TV naked...but clearly some do. I have to admit I'm not keen on a small shrivelled looking penis though generally.

j712adrian · 16/01/2020 15:13

The other thing to say about this is that Naked Attraction is a particularly joyless and tawdry item, much more likely to turn off than on.

doesthatmakesense · 16/01/2020 23:19

@pulpfiction1 I refer to you the #penisbeaker thread which I believe is in Classics.

@anotherblokelurking just FYI I positively swooned and cheered at your correct understanding of female anatomy. It is a rare thing. #vulvas4eva

1forAll74 · 17/01/2020 05:07

I sometimes watch Naked Attraction, for a laugh usually. It's the most crass programme ever, and good job there doesn't seem to be any audience participation in the studio, you know, like laughing and clapping etc.

So, I am an oldie,and have to laugh about the stupid comments,that the men and women say,when asked about the men's and women's bits and bobs, ha ha..

So now, do you think it's time to get some oldies .(senior citizens ) on the show.? as they will probably be able to get some lovely shapely ladies on there,, but maybe not so many droopy men.

Anotherblokelurking · 17/01/2020 10:20

Naked Attraction is like Embarrassing Bodies, as someone said above, morbid fascination. Fascinating, strangely reassuring (oh, perhaps mine’s not so bad then) and to keep abreast (sorry) of the latest trends in waxing, tattooing and piercings; interesting to see how pubes have almost entirely disappeared from both genders. There has been at least one oldies edition along with gay, lesbian, bi and trans pairings, and to be fair they are also quite inclusive of race/colour and disabilities. And sometimes amusing. The presenter asked one twenty-something virgin lad if he knew where the clitoris was and he replied, somewhere down there isn’t it?

StarlightLady · 17/01/2020 12:04

Regardless of gender, genetalia and hygiene go hand in hand.

StrawberryTot · 19/01/2020 22:44

I think I’m in the minority as I love the look of man’s penis, more so my actual DF, it’s perfect.

Also just to add after reading the thread, I never complain about a dick pic, it’s very common practice in our relationship but we don’t live together, so lots of dirty talk via text for us.

And as for washing in the sink it’s referred to as a ‘gentleman’s wash’ here and never frowned upon.

Interestedwoman · 19/01/2020 23:12

I asked this very question to some friends a while back. One said that if she fell in love with a guy, she fell in love with his penis, but there were still some penises which were enough of a turn off to end it really'

Personally I'm bi, and although most of my sex life has been hetero, I find willies mostly unattractive, and don't feel that about pussies at all. I don't have much confidence in it, or I'd be having more lesbian sex I like to think.

How do you feel about pussies? Did you ever have an attraction to a woman, or a homoerotic experience?

Should I watch this programme lol

Blokenamechangesexboard · 24/01/2020 13:30

I guess blokes don't like every women's bits either.

I like what they represent, so I like the look of them - in context or otherwise. However, they aren't as aesthetically pleasing as a nice womanly arse or pair of boobs.

CanIhelpyouatall · 25/01/2020 01:14

A flaccid willy isn’t top of my to see list either grin However, a girthy erect penis is a different matter!
Agreed, my partner's is a glorious sight to behold. I don't really wish to look at random willies though.

Namechangedyorkshire · 25/01/2020 08:12

It looks like we are moving into a debate on size now lol. However, def makes a difference as to what looks nice. Decent size as opposed to small and shrivelled and without loads of foreskin gets my vote

veewee · 25/01/2020 19:32

No, I love the look of a cock! Especially a nice hard one, makes me lick my lips, although a flaccid one turns me on at the thought of making it hard! They're far better looking than pussies (in my opinion & I'm bi)

Livandme · 27/01/2020 11:30

Some are nicer looking than others 😂
Fresh and clean is always better no matter what it looks like.
slightly off topic but I watch naked attraction with my teenage son. Where else would we view naked bodies & talk about different shapes /sizes etc.
Great opener for conversation

Pricklefish · 27/01/2020 17:48

I LIKE seeing willies, they have a fascinating diversity of shape and size. Yum.

John470322 · 02/02/2020 21:55

My wife likes to come in when I am having a shower and see my penis, testicles and pubic hairs (cock, balls and pubes) all covered in soap suds. I try to make sure they are soapy ready for her to see.

MorganKitten · 03/02/2020 01:06

Some are nice, some not, same with vulvas

Marshmello · 04/02/2020 23:03

Um ... maybe you're just not a voyeur? It's not exactly natural to look at lots of genitalia with no connection to the person.

Gre8scott · 08/02/2020 17:17

Actually going to vomit at this thread

honeyloops · 08/02/2020 18:16

They're not all beautiful, but the fact that you're repulsed by them to the point you were worried about having a male child suggests to me there's something bigger going on. You need therapy.

Ferretyone · 16/02/2020 17:11

@TenPenceMix

"Speech of aristocrat = Dame Edith Evans"

"Young man I have never seen a soft penis!"

Wink
angell84 · 16/02/2020 21:35

I think that it depends on your history too. Whether you have been sexually abused in your past.

I see a penis and I see a weapon. I see a penis and I feel fear. We are all affected by out pasts

Raspberrytruffle · 21/02/2020 23:55

Not that our vaginas are in any way beautiful they arnt but penis reminds me of a naked mole rat? I guess our genitals are not beautiful but functional,?

StarlightLady · 22/02/2020 05:07

@Raspberrytruffle - I disagree, l think the vulva is something of wonder and beauty. It is often subtilely reproduced in art (l’m not referring to naked paintings) and artefacts.

Sadly, many people are brought up to think it is something dirty. That’s were the problem starts.

Viva la vulva.

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