Reading another post has got me thinking that maybe I'm not alone. How long does it take you to orgasm? Do you orgasm from sex alone?
It takes me nearly an hour from my partner going down on me and it's sometimes gotten so bad I've told him we should just call it a night before getting there... The trouble is I'm lying there and my bloody head thinks about everything APART from sexy stuff. I'll add that he's actually good and is the only partner I've had who has taken the trouble to find out what I actually enjoy in bed, so it's not a case of me not getting there because he is rubbish.