Best vibrator for a newbie

[PrudiePru]

Name change because I'm a prude.

I'm currently pregnant, and also just turned 30 and this year I want to have better sex. I really stuggle to climax from vaginal penetration, and feel it's time to add a toy to our usual routine that will help me climax.

I want something non-scary, discreet, affordable (max £60ish?) - does that exist?

I'm very curious about those clitoral suction vibrators. What is the best one?

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If you want to just augment your usual routine, a simple bullet vibrator is a nice easy first step. Good for clitoral stimulation during penetration. I have a few, but the Tracey Cox SuperSex bullet vibrator is a good reliable one - small, powerful enough, hard-wearing, excellent battery life, discreet and doesn't look entirely horrific. And about £15, so you won't have lost much if you don't like it.

Have a roam on LoveHoney and see what catches your eye. I'm quite interested in trying a clitoral suction thingy but probably only for me - I find quite a lot of sex toys rather... unsexy? in a bedroom situation?

Thank you @ladycarlotta, I'm ordering a bullet and might treat myself to the Satisfyer 1 to get me started..!

i would only go for the satisfyer if you really struggle to orgasm. a mate told me her husband bought them one to spice things up but it takes you virtually straight to orgasm it is that effective whereas i prefer taking time. The bullet may be a good choice. we have a rubbery black one..is nice using inside and doesn't stimulate the clit too much but if you want to you can pull it out and rub against which is more than enough.

Enjoy anyway

i would only go for the satisfyer if you really struggle to orgasm. a mate told me her husband bought them one to spice things up but it takes you virtually straight to orgasm it is that effective whereas i prefer taking time. The bullet may be a good choice. we have a rubbery black one..is nice using inside and doesn't stimulate the clit too much but if you want to you can pull it out and rub against which is more than enough.....oh don't worry about being a prude...enough couples/ladies own one...in fact apparently the majority

Enjoy anyway

I've got a Womanizer, (similar to the Satisfyer). It's awesome, and doesn't leave your bits feeling all buzzed out/numb like the more vibrating types. I found it a bit much at first and freaked myself out by squirting, which I'd never done before so now I prefer to use it on the lowest setting. It makes some funny noises, and takes a bit of practice to find exactly the right spot.

I've just brought the mini wand from Ann Summers, it's been great so far.

Go on the lovehoney website, loads to choose from with lots of beginner toys. I'd recommend a bullet for a beginner, or one of the mini wands

The suction ones are amazing! I got one a couple of weeks ago and can't believe how different it is to the traditional vibrating ones. It kind of gently sucks on your clitoris in and out, my clitoris was so long by the time I orgasmed, that's never happened to me before The only drawback is that it's very loud!