I'm really on board with people freely expressing their sexuality etc. Live and let live and all that. Plus, I really enjoy sex a lot.
BUT I find the whole dom/sub stuff so hard to get my head around. I don't mean there's any should/shouldn't around this because we definitely are in a free country. But, just WHAT, WHY? Sex is great. It's pleasurable. What 's with the pain and suffering? I definitely don't mean that people shouldn't be into that. I just mean that sex feels good, so why the need for pain etc? It's such as British thing. Other countries/cultures just go along with the fact that sex feels good and there's no need to mix up pleasure/pain. Sex feels good. Why involve pain and suffering?