To think Christmas Anal is not a “thing”

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Cos my bum can’t take it!

Been with the Mr for 10 years and he loves Anal, we have it probably once every couple of months because I’m not so keen, I really have to be in the mood!

We have a great sex life, will try most things and are at it at least 3 times a week and have a lot of fun but starting the week before Christmas he was cheekily asking for Christmas Anal! Is this a thing? Will New Years blowies come up next or valentines foot jobs?!

Ps. I’ve given in once, and made him really work for it, but I’m keen for this not to be a tradition!!

Wtaf? You know there’s a sex section, yeah?

Gross

I'd say definitely not, but it would be a cold day in hell before I'd allow anything up my bum hole

No one who loves you should pressure you into something you don't want to do.

Lard it up and think of brexit?

Shtaaaaaaaap now

You are not obligated to have any kind of sex, regardless of occasion. The idea of my partner suggesting I do something I'm not keen on because it's Christmas make me feel a little bit ill tbh.

Hi OP, we're going to move this to the Sex topic now.

If he is so keen on Anal, offer to perform it on him.

You are way, way, way oversharing OP.

if you are genuine that is

Nobody should “give in” to sex acts they don’t want to do. No decent human pressurises another until they “give in” to any type of sex.

Christmas Anal.
And they say faith isn't dead.

You know anal is all about power and degradation right?

Erm I’n not sure this is what the Christmas section is for...

You know anal is all about power and degradation right?

Umm no

You know anal is all about power and degradation right?

Why only at Christmas, i'm all for "any day with a y in in anal".. that's probably, almost definitely just me tho.
Sorry

I’m sorry folks, had quite a bit to drink, probably a case of don’t mumsnet and drink, but you guys, I was feeling sharey.

Thanks for moving me to sex topic, I genuinely didn’t know it existed, merry Christmas all, thanks for the community, love this site 😘

Definitely need to name change after this and never change back again!!!! I swear I often say stuff before I think but never before have I typed it 😬

So OP... Did you give in??

If I didn't like something I wouldn't do it just to make a partner happy

Sounds to me like a contrived pretext for bumsex. He’ll want it on his birthday, your wedding anniversary, on the Royal wedding day, etc etc