To think Christmas Anal is not a “thing”

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Cos my bum can’t take it!

Been with the Mr for 10 years and he loves Anal, we have it probably once every couple of months because I’m not so keen, I really have to be in the mood!

We have a great sex life, will try most things and are at it at least 3 times a week and have a lot of fun but starting the week before Christmas he was cheekily asking for Christmas Anal! Is this a thing? Will New Years blowies come up next or valentines foot jobs?!

Ps. I’ve given in once, and made him really work for it, but I’m keen for this not to be a tradition!!

I don't really get this question. If this is something you do about half a dozen times a year then it doesn't seem so weird that DH should sometimes ask for it. If you never want him to ask, you should make that crystal clear.

Having said that, I have yet to give a sexual favour as a Christmas present but maybe I should start! One less thing to wrap .

Of course it's not a thing!

Don't let him force you to do something you don't enjoy.

I love a bit of anal sometimes. I do it because it really feels good.

I really don't understand why you do it when you don't actually like it. Does he know that you don't enjoy it?

Yuk anal is painful and just awful

fantasmasgoria1 Is this from bad personal experience?

Of course it isn't. The bum is an exit not an entrance.

So is gay sex yuk, painful, just awful and wrong because it the bum is an exit not an entrance?
Or do this disgust only apply to anal sex with a woman?

I completely agree you shouldn't have anal sex if you don't want to have anal sex. However, I don't think it's a good general long-term rule to refuse to ever do anything for your partner that you don't yourself particularly enjoy. I would hate for DH to take that line with me for example.