Vibrator - Hubby doesn't approve! So I'll have to hide it

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Just ordered one but I know hubby won't be happy. Will just have to hide it 😜

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Like he doesn't wank?
Have you ever had a conversation with him about sex toys or masturbation?

Why wouldn't he be happy?

Buy one that doesn't look like a penis then . Give him a bj while using the vibe on yourself don't think he'll kick up a fuss after that!

Him wanking and her using a vibrator aren't really comparable though. A better comparison would be a bloke buying a fleshlight or anal beads. Not that I have an issue with any type of sex toy, I'm just saying.

He's being a twat.

I'm sure he uses outside stimulation whilst wanking. If he does he's also a hypocrite

I couldn't be with a man that minded me owning or using a vibrator.

I'd tell him where to go. Why does he object?

Erm, do you usually let him control what you buy?

How insecure, never experienced that myself fortunately. Could you try introducing it to the bedroom and using it while you're together? I've recently shown dp how nice the buzz feels while we're doing it doggy style and he was very pleasantly surprised.

Has he actually said he doesn't want you to have one?

A better comparison would be a bloke buying a fleshlight

Is it acceptable for a bloke to own a fleshlight? Or is it a bit odd?

Him wanking and her using a vibrator aren't really comparable though
Of course they are. They are both masturbation without the input from another person. Whether using a sex toy or fingers or a cucumber - it's all masturbation.
I would agree that him using a sex toy would be more similar, but they are both essentially the same. If his ego can't cope with a sex toy, he probably can't cope with her masturbating at all.

Is it acceptable for a bloke to own a fleshlight? Or is it a bit odd?
Why would it be odd?
There are millions of them sold so someone must be using them

why the fuck not?

lots of fun to be had together.

Get a magic wand with the penis sleeve attachment. He won't mind so much then.

Hubby, who the hell says hubby?

Is it acceptable for a bloke to own a fleshlight? Or is it a bit odd?

Of course it's acceptable! It's not odd at all; what a strange comment

Of course they are. They are both masturbation without the input from another person. Whether using a sex toy or fingers or a cucumber - it's all masturbation.

I don't know. I mean I would be cool with my boyfriend wanking, not so cool with him shagging a life size sex doll.

Is it acceptable for a bloke to own a fleshlight? Or is it a bit odd?

I've never encountered one myself. But if it's acceptable for women to use vibrators (which I think it should be), then it should also be acceptable for men to use flesh lights or vibrators, right?

Dump him. What a loser

Talk to him about why you have bought one.

Everyone slaying the husband based on pure speculation...

How do you know he wouldn't like it? Ime most men love seeing a woman pleasure herself and using it during sex and he gets the pleasure too even better.

Theresamustgo....hubby, I say it. I have the term dh. Dear husband? How fucking 1950's.

Hate not have