Fisting

[VenusInFauxFurs]

I was very consensually, enthusiastically fisted for the first time the other evening. It was very pleasant, quite possibly the best orgasm I've ever had.

But, there was a lot of bleeding. I only realised afterwards quite how much blood there was. He was wearing a latex glove so I think the bleeding came from stretching rather than scratching.

Has anyone else had experience of bleeding after fisting? I didn't experience any pain at the time or afterwards. I am going to the GUM clinic tomorrow and will ask them about it.

Well, once you're up to the knuckles, the thumb's mostly inside anyway.

Well imho if you leave the thumb out its not fisting. Best way is to tuck the thumb in, and once it's in clench the fist and rotate slowly...

It's true that the thumb could be useful for something else but then where would s/he put their tongue?

No fainting now

Well, quite. I'm no kind of expert you understand. Given that my first encounter ended with my gentleman friend having to strip the bed sheets and me saying "You broke my fanny!"

And then me posting about it on Mumsnet...

Bit before that was marvellous though. (And we're all good now. I know he didn't really break my fanny.)

Quite off topic but to show how down to earth GUM clinic staff are...

I went to have a Mirena fitted and they were amazed by my 'history'. I was apparently the most 'boring' person they'd seen in months!!

Oh, I hope they didn't call you boring! That's quite judgemental in its own way, no?

Unless you turned up having had no kind of sex ever at any time, I suppose. And then I guess they'd just be wondering what you went in there for.

Venus I'm pleased that you are ok and no damage done.

I know it wasn't intended as such, but thank you for such a funny thread

Oh goodness OP, glad you're ok. Sat here giggling to myself over the Fiat and Eyes like Shovels! Best typos!

Glad it all went well at the clinic OP.

I'm so glad it turned into a funny thread. Am never going to be able to look at Fiats the same way again.

It was, in retrospect, such an entirely pointless thread. Obviously, the only response to "I have experienced unexpected bleeding" is going to be "Seek the help of a medical professional." Which I did.

Well not the ONLY response, as it turns out. I also got told that I was a fantasist and that I should have more respect for myself but, hey ho. Mumsnet's still my go-to place on the internet. You were mostly all awesome.

OMG what ever you do, don't go to google images.

If you don't get told you're a fantasist/compulsive liar at least once on your own thread, you're probably on the wrong site. Glad it all went well OP. It's good to talk after all.

And on a slightly related note, I am intrigued by the fact that early on in the thread, someone reported me for trollism and, apparently, according to MNHQ, I "checked out OK". AIBU to be curious about what their criteria are? I'm glad I passed the test but I lurk way more than I post (usually because I start reading threads when everything useful has already been said).

Good god, Sweetpea, did you just google "fisting"? How are your porn filters?

Arf, surely you're selectively quoting from me saying "It's NOT like a punch up the chuff."

(Sorry if I've just made you read the words "punch up the chuff". Again.)

Glad you are ok, Op. Sorry about the breeding post. I have stupid fingers.

sweetpea!!!!!! 2 fists!!!! And a bloody octopus!!!!!! What in the name of all that is holy?!!

Glad you're ok op. I'm reading this in a restaurant ( surrounded mainly by Italians and Germans) who keep giving me funny looks at the sniggery snortery noises I'm making.

DH for once is oblivious!

Can I just say how much I admire the OP's sang froid, and the fact that this thread has got nicely back on the rails and ended up informing and entertaining after an iffy start. The only people who are attracting my judgy pants are the ill-advised Googlers. What the hell were you thinking!?

I couldn't help it! Tell me not to do something and I'll do it twice and take a picture. except fisting.

Another one here doing the thumb & finger thing !!!

This is an interesting post !

I'm very intrigued.

Liked the link too!

Hopefully it's nothing major OP & accidents happen, in the bedroom or otherwise - it's not like your man stabbed you with a carving knife & that's why you're bleeding.

Can't believe the amount of moaning because this thread shows in active?

The title couldn't have made it much clearer, it's in the sex topic?

Opening it in my mind then whinging would be like walking into a kebab shop & complaining they sold kebabs?

Well said Roundmyway, the thread subject and title gave the game away...

It often makes me wonder how some people on here can be so piss takey and judgey about others peoples preferences when surely the MN ethos is to offer support, advice and assistance.

Venus, very glad you checked out ok, and well done for being so restrained.