Another very nervy parent here. Our first preference is almost always oversubscribed by 100+ and based on last year’s data, were on the cusp of the catchment. The nearest secondary is good on paper but there’s something I don’t like about it - can’t put my finger on it - and dd is fairly adamant she’s not going.
To make matters worse, we live in an affluent area and a lot of kids go to the fee-paying selectives. We cannot afford that. The lovely, charming parents who can have been peddling the “local school is terrible” crap to their dc for years now and they are spouting this message to my dc.
I have anxiety as it is but this is sending me into complete despair.