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lamoseley · 04/11/2012 10:25

I would appreciate any help or advice that you can offer as I am at my wits end.
My daughter is 13 next month. For the last 2 months she has been bullied by another fellow pupil who she used to be friends with.
It started with name calling, rumours, etc and 4 weeks ago my daughter was physically attacked in school time. It was a very vicious fight and it took two teachers to remove the bully off of my daughter. The school suspended the bully for 6 weeks (This is not the first time the bully has been in trouble) and is due back at school tomorrow but will not be put back into mainstream lessons for a further two weeks.
During this period my daughter has received messages/threats/calls from the bully and her associates.
I have been to the school numerous times to keep them informed and to advise that my daughter is fearful and I am worried for her safety.
They have said anything that happens outside school is a police matter although my daughter does not want that in fear of making things worse.
The bully shows no remorse or intention of backing down and even swore and was abusive to myself the other day.
I feel that I am not happy to send my daughter into school and I am sick with worry. My daughter is good at talking with me and I feel she is putting on a brave face to save my worrying but she has now said she wants to move school.
I have spoken to the grammar school where my son attends (Been very pleased with this school) and they have space within her year group but daughter would need to take an entry exam. 50/50 whether she will pass.
Has anybody else been through a similar experience? I do not know which way to turn.

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lamoseley · 05/11/2012 16:38

Oh 5mad...sounds like he is on an adventure! one thing after another eh!
Can he call taxi from the tesco??

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lamoseley · 05/11/2012 16:45

Give it a few days and he will have the hang of it! Lots of new things to learn at once. He will be exhausted when he gets home!

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5madthings · 05/11/2012 16:50

he is now on a bus! the people at the tesco said the bus stop outside of the tesco would get him a bus to norwich, the dirver has told him it stops at the stop he got on this morning so its the right bus!

honestly he is such a numpty!! i have told him tomorrow when he gets off the bus he needs to look at the road opposite him and see where the stop is!! adn to go out the back way of the school so he gets to the right bus stop, or he could walk up to the tesco and get that bus again, its the same one i think it goes round in a circle!! he will be cold and tired yes, but should be home soon. he sounded ok when i spoke to him, not upset or anything so thats good :)

a taxi would cost a fortune! but was my next option! thank god he has a mobile phone! and thankfully his bus pass is valid on any of the norwich buses so he doesnt have to get a specific one at a specific time or anything.

5madthings · 05/11/2012 16:51

tiggy that is exactly what i have just been doing! thanks :)

5madthings · 05/11/2012 16:56

he didnt even know the name of the road he was on! so i had to google the tesco he was at and find the road name etc, he has just called to say he is now back near home, just off the bus and walking home now. he got a different number bus than he should have done, but he now knows where he is and should be home in a little bit :)

i am just sorting out the bus maps etc online so we can have a look at where he needs to go tomorrow!

5madthings · 05/11/2012 17:19

he is home Grin poor boy he should have been home an hour ago!

he seems to have had a good day, a french test that went well and he recognises a few people at the school and everyone was friendly etc :)

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