ahem - is it permanent?.......................

[prettyfly1]

hey guys long time no speak. most of you knwo situation with ex and how awful it was. Baby is now three months old. went out last night and met someone attractive who i thought was nice and funny and he came back to mine with a few others, got the old butterflys going on and then when he made a move i just froze and instantly went off him. I still have urges but to b honest the idea and reality of letting anyone near me makes my skin crawl. I know this is some kind of phsychological reaction to exs treating me like an unpaid lady of the night shall we say but i dont know how to change it. I feel horribly unnatractive and undesirble as it is without being frigid!!! Help have any of the rest of you felt like this...l..

too many messages, makes my head hurt.

sorry . . .

Oh no, you've put that birdhouse back in my head.

the bee in your bonnet . . .

Don't think this is a Freudian slip, but I keep getting I've Got You Babe in my head since Birdhouse. Was that UB40 and Chrissie Hind?

I seem to recall they did it together?

I was a keen pretenders fan, along with Sousiox and the Banshees (I know I've spelt that wrong.)

Ohmigod, I am listening Her Highness right now! admittedly on an Basement Jaxx sample but even so . . . ! She is one of my heroes, my mate Big Pete was her best friend and still gets christmas cards/updates etc.

Oh gawd, we are hijacking again . . .

I think I preferred The Creatures but Dear Prudence was awesome . . .

Name dropper....

That reminds me, your friends have gone quiet, hope I didn't interupt too badly... Dear Prudence was incredible though.

Yeah well, I could tell you about the time I bounced off Barbara Windsor's boobies . . . not the same though

Now that should be me saying that...

sorry prettyfly . . . we meant no harm xxx

Big Pete did a lot of their artwork and was there in the heyday . . . Sex Pistols and all that - you don't argue with the man!

I was too Indie for the Pistols. Lots of mates were keen tho, I was in minority.

Downloaded a bit of Wite Stripes yesterday

I don't mind either way, just wish I had seen the original King Street shops and attitude! Jim got me into the Stone Roses etc so I love my indie music. But I must be getting on because there is nothing that gets me going anymore, just the odd single here and there .

atually it is whte stripes

I got stuck in a rut listening to Morrissey but found his writing in the late 80's/early 90's followed my life, unless it was the other way around in which case no wonder I'm here now, thanks either way.

eldest daughter caught me listening to them yesterday, she was not impressed, but said her boyfriend likes them.

I've got an excuse being a clmsy blke

She caught you listening to ? I am varying on my mood - I really need to hear Birdhouse in your Soul again!. Some B52s would be nice too

She was brought up on Smiths, a good advert for a 'balanced parental responsiblity', not that Iknow what that is.

Loveshack, excellent stuff.