just being nosey,how many times have you done it this year?

[darkandstormy]

There has been a drought re tiredness, flu ,stress etc but for me once just interested in a general poll.Think I will become a nun I am halfway to being qualified

Honestly none

Horrendous SPD means that although the mind is willing the body says no.

My poor DP.

I really dont keep count

not as much s i'd like

Couldn't say exactly but not many.

With DH none...hence the divorce..

Do we all think it is down to the weather, that is my excuse my dh blames late night ebay,yeah right.

Iro 20-25? Winter does tend put us off, I have to have the bedroom up to at least 20 degrees to be in the mood, our gas bill will be enormous! DH fell asleep on me 3 nights in a row before I finally collared him last night.

Just looking out of curiosity
Honestly, it's been nearly a year for me. And OH just moved out yesterday I can't wait until i find someone i feel that way about again.
I also need it to be hot in the room before anything gets started.

this is it cold weather, that sad syndrome.I t all adds up .It sets thescene for sparse sex lives imo,still at least we all get plenty of sleep

We are in the 'once' camp. I just can't be bothered.
But DH and I are going through troubles at the moment, undoubtedly brought on by the lack of sex.
He feels we are not 'close' but I feel that is because he is a tit.
He doesn't see it that way

6 times.

Twinklingfairy

"He feels we are not 'close' but I feel that is because he is a tit."

Just have just made me really chuckle when I was feeling very down - thank you.

twinkling fairy made me laugh too.straight to the point.cheered me up whilst reaching for the lemsip.

Riven,

think you need to go for an older bloke...lol. Or rephrase your post??

For me - zilch, and the same for last year, and the year before that, and.......

Twice, both right back at the beginning of January Partly my fault (pregnant with #3 and feeling deeply unattractive), partly the weather (I can't do anything when its this cold) and partly (mostly?) cos dh has been quite down about other stuff so hasn't really been in the mood. And of course, on the rare occasions one of us has been up for it, the other has been ill....

20 -30 I think

once or twice - heavily pregnant but also DH is mildly depressed and also won't go near me with the bump

I think i'm over worked! average 5/6 times a week but did get 10days off following the snip and a double hernia op in the middle of Jan. DS2 is 6months old and waking twice a night. No wonder i'm looking so old!

Bout 6 times if that!

0 (am single)

no idea but it's pretty much daily so whatever that adds up to be

ooooooooo not sure lots though, too much to count

umm, why does the room need to be hot? doesn't it get hot pretty much straight away?