just being nosey,how many times have you done it this year?

[darkandstormy]

There has been a drought re tiredness, flu ,stress etc but for me once just interested in a general poll.Think I will become a nun I am halfway to being qualified

It's apparently a well known scientific fact that women need warm feet to be able to orgasm - I know I do! I've been known to keep my fleecy socks on and DH would keep his fleecy bathrobe on if I let him.

Shagging whilst desperately trying to keep the duvet around your shoulders isn't conducive to red hot passion either .

Never mind, I'll be swimming in a sea as warm as bathwater next week.

I knew this thread would depress me.
I'm off.

Far too much to remember!

This first quareter is always below par for us as it contains February and as both our children were conceived in February and we absolutly do not want anymore we abstain from our fertilest month. . I am not divulging more than that.

No idea. Surely you stop counting once you past about 17?

Loads, I'm newly seperated (but not quite single because I have someone to do the deed with!). I've lost count...it's great, I feel like a teenager!

none.

now ask me how many times I have done it in the last ten years of married life?

Not once

We also have had a run of colds/coughs/chest an ear infections both the children and me almost non-stop since the new year. Add to that DH is away a lot (few days at a time)

We haven't spoken about it, but are still touchy-feely and hug each other all the time. I'm not overly worried but it's on my mind I really want to remedy this and try to 'relight the fire'. We've been married 9 years and I'm 36 and too young to say goodbye to a sex life.

Now DH away Mon - Fri this week, then away again on Saturday...so there is quite a lot of pressure riding on Friday night!!

Not once hence the marriage breakdown.
But I did just receive a message from Mr Possible that made my stomach flip so it may not be too long

None.

About 15 times..thought we were doing well at that but reading some of these posts now not so sure...did one of the posters actually say they did it everyday?? Christ, I never hit that rate even pre - kids..

None this year and very little the year before. Its a sad, sad sorry story!!

Twinglingfairy. Brilliant!!

Oh dear. Not once. No excuse, I want to 'want to,' but I just don't want to.

Poor dh is very sweet about it.

from 3 times a week last year to 3 times this year

Very, very few, on account of my pregnancy being hard work and I have, um, lady garden issues.
So,maybe 10.

Goodness, loads

Have gone from virtually zilch for the last 17 yrs to suddenly discovering my libido this last few mths!

Is all very odd indeed. But dh isn't complaining!

not as often as I'd like. I keep going to sleep very early, due to SAD-tendancies and now the dc are older, they are attuned to any hint of mater and pater getting jiggy. it is most offputting....
DH has lingered hopefully, rubbing his hands in doorways on my days off, so not quite a total drought.

malificence I am green with envy swimming in warm sea waters in a few weeks.....I want to tooo there is nothing like the holiday vibe for keeping passion well lit.Talking about temperatures I think it is more the fluffy bedsocks the turn off than the lack of heat

A few times, but not for about 2 weeks. There won't be any more this year as DH has announced that he doesn't love me and wants a divorce!

& DOG!

I have read your post out to DH, in an attempt to show him it is possible.
With SPD as well!

Darkandstormy - not in a few weeks, next week , sorry if I seem to be rubbing it in ( well, not really ).

Holiday sex is always the best , the sunshine really ignites my inner sex kitten, a few Jack Daniels and DH can go for hours .

25th Wedding anniversary while we're away too, DH won't tell me what he's arranged and I've been a really good girl and not peeked at his emails to and from the hotel. I'm a very lucky girl ( or so he keeps telling me) .

Twice. But DD is 11 weeks old so the most action I get at night is getting up to the kitchen and sorting a bottle out.

Yellowcircle - that is awful, sorry to hear that sad news.