I know that some of you lucky ladies have doting partners who find the fact that you grew, carried and gave birth to your babies sexy but is their anything else about mums that other men in general find attractive.
When I became a new mum, I felt gross. I now feel attractive again but I don't feel like the rampant young sex goddess that I used to. I feel more mumsy and wholesome although when I ovulate I get up for it big time!
Also do men have this Madonna/whore complex? Do they find shagging mums wied compared to childless girls?
Has having kids changed how you feel with regards to sex and feeling sexy?
Do men like the earth mother thing?
And how the hell do you get any sex at all as a single mum with a 18 month old child or even as a couple with older kids? I will miss the spontenaity of my pre-kids life but I guess we have to be more creative!
Sorry I'm not sure if this thread got published yesterday.
Most of the time I don't miss it but I'm getting curious again!