care to share?... how many sexual partners have you had?

[juicychops]

just to compare really. just watched sex and the city which gave me the idea!!

mine is 6. im 25 is that high, low or average?

around 50. all before I was 27 when I met my dh. Have been completely faithful since.

Sexual partners - 13.
People I've kissed - 17.

Basically, if you're close enough to whisper in my ear, you're in. And based on previous experience, if you ask me, I'll marry you.

Really MUST book that assertiveness course.

One. We are now married having been together for 12 years

Only my husband. He's the only person I've ever kissed too. I married at 24 and am now 34.

Goodness - over 30 I think and I'm under 30 (just). Boys and girls. All good wholesome pre marriage fun!

I always tell a new partner that he is number 12, it's easier to remember that way

honestly can't remember, but there was a lot of activity between 16 and 19 then only 3 in the last 21 years.

Only one i'm afraid, I wish i had slept around more.

approx 24 men, a couple of women - think I've forgotten a couple of the men

I would definitely muse that men are all very different size wise - from one guy who's knob head was so wide he couldn't get it in to one guy who was less than 2 inches fully erect.

Yes Grumpy, it's important to work out what the "right" number is to say! (Usually whatever they have done, minus 5).

at once, or overall?

one.

10 full sex.

4 almost sex.

1 female.

Age 32.

16 and thats including a few girlies.

16-21 was first love
21-21 was a fill in (10m and a few experiences along the way )
21-26- was ds1's sperm donor
then a selection between then and getting married at 28, divorced at 30, met dp and been with him since.
some girly fun since being with him though not with him there lol

but can we discount the crap ones? and the one night stands? short relationships? and shag buddies??
cos that takes me to 4

1. And hopefully that will be all, DH is fabulous in the sack and has frankly ruined me for others.

Not enough!

Not that I would have been a slag, but there are about 3 men/boys with whom I should have slept with, but didn't.

On my 7th, and probably last.

I can't possibly remember how many men I've kissed !!! or for that matter sexual fumbles ...

Full sex: I met DH when I was 23 and there were 7 before him. So 8 altogether !
x

Not sure if it's in double or treble figures but most of them were years ago (I'm 52). In the early 90s my group of single mates (very Sex & the City) had a competition going to see who could shag the most men as we'd all just come out of long-term relationships and wanted a bit of light relief. It was called the Pork Challenge and I won it .

I'm a born again serial monogamist now and have been for ages. Hoping that my current DP will be the last man I ever sleep with .

Full penetrative sex? 28, from age 15 to 30, when I met my DH. Not that many really - averages out at less than two a year.

1475

oops, no sorry, thats my PIN numbers, its one.

From 15 to 22 when I met dh around 30ish. Not sure exactly.

10. Includes current DP and one drunken girlie romp. Am 30, don't feel the need to have slept with more people or with less.

Sex in a relationship is very important, vital but as a thing, an act in itself, isn't really on my list of things to get done, IFYSWIM?

I am PMSL at choosyfloosy:

"Basically, if you're close enough to whisper in my ear, you're in. And based on previous experience, if you ask me, I'll marry you.

Really MUST book that assertiveness course."

not least because she should probably change her name to "notsochoosyfloosy"

And all of you who are discounting the crap shags .