Meet the Other Phone. Protection built in.

Meet the Other Phone.
Protection built in.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Relationships

Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody

care to share?... how many sexual partners have you had?

157 replies

juicychops · 30/11/2009 19:59

just to compare really. just watched sex and the city which gave me the idea!!

mine is 6. im 25 is that high, low or average?

OP posts:
alwayslookingforanswers · 30/11/2009 21:05

I apart from DH (who was number 5) I can remember the names and number of times I slept with each of them.......well probably something to do with the fact that only one of the others I slept with more than once

4andnotout · 30/11/2009 21:06

42 i think, but thats just the men....

ShowOfHands · 30/11/2009 21:06

Just dh. Met as teens.

BitOfFun · 30/11/2009 21:06

Shiney- reminds me of this...

TBMOM · 30/11/2009 21:09

I'm 26 now and I started when I was 16 and I've had at least 15 but no more than 20 if I'm honest. I don't feel especially proud of myself and it's not something I would ever confess to in real life. I have had an STI, a pretty bad case of Herpes but I'm fortunate in that I've never had a repeated episode thank God. If I could do it all again I would certainly do it differently. Sex is so overrated.

RumourOfAHurricane · 30/11/2009 21:10

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn

redsofas · 30/11/2009 21:14

far too many but only 2 within the last 4 years. I was also far too young when i lost 'it' and regret it now never mind.

SolidGoldBangers · 30/11/2009 21:16

Around 100. I am 45 so that's over more than 20 years and averages at about 5 a year if you think about it....

And I would just like to say that no, I don't regret it in the least (one or two were not great but no big problems.)
And I have never had an STI, either.

queenofdenial2009 · 30/11/2009 21:19

Blimey, I think I beat all of you! But good sex is so long ago, I can hardly remember.

spicemonster · 30/11/2009 21:21

I knew I could rely on you SGB

TheProvincialLady · 30/11/2009 21:22

I'm 34 and it has just been the one, DH. Feel free to pity me (but he's good so I have no complaints)

slug · 30/11/2009 21:23

Just under ten, both genders . I met DH when I was 32, I'm 44 now.

choccyp1g · 30/11/2009 21:27

Nearly 50, and I'm 51, so that's less than one a year...In truth i was very busy between 18 and 32, and seemed to get a lot less offers thereafter.

muggglewump · 30/11/2009 21:27

What Solid said, 'cept I'm 13 years younger.

Most were between 17 and meeting DD's Dad when I was 21.
I can't see me living that sort of life again but who knows when DD is grown up and has left home. I had a lot of fun back then.

mmrred · 30/11/2009 21:28

Oh no...if we've got to include girly fun as well it's definitely calculator time.

Can I take off the ones where I was p*ssed?

Lizzylou · 30/11/2009 21:29

Hmm, since I was 23, 1 (DH)

Between 18-23, (16-18 was first love), hmm, a fair few.

MistressIggi · 30/11/2009 21:30
  1. Have taken off all the ones were I was drunk though
mmrred · 30/11/2009 21:30

And nobody who's anybody counts any sexual activity on a wet Sunday late afternoon when the only other choice was 'Highway', surely...

Lizzylou · 30/11/2009 21:33

Oh Iggi, if that's the case then most of the "wilderness years" didn't really happen
Does the next morning count in this theory?

spicemonster · 30/11/2009 21:37

Oh well if you're going to do that, can I discount all the crap shags? That'd take at least 10 off my total, if not more. Actually it may well be more than 50. I haven't made any attempt at counting for ages. But my sex tends to be sporadic - until recently I hadn't had sex in 4 years. Before that, it was 7 different people in a year. Meh

Malificence · 30/11/2009 22:11

I don't think I've even known a hundred men in my lifetime, let alone been "intimate" with them!

I've only kissed three and two of those were before the age of 16.

Certainly don't feel like I've missed out.

RumourOfAHurricane · 30/11/2009 22:16

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn

spicemonster · 30/11/2009 22:18

Well you don't know do you Malificence? I wonder what it would be like to know every inch of someone's body like I presume you do and watch them getting older in front of my eyes. Must be nice.

But my experience isn't worse I'd say, just different.

MistressIggi · 30/11/2009 22:26

I used to have a kissing list written down, started when I was 16. If they had an asterix next to their name, it meant something else!

VengefulKitty · 30/11/2009 22:44

I am 28 and have had 6 (possibly 7 but I don't think he was in ) men and 1 woman...

Swipe left for the next trending thread